Relationship Issues Secrets

I’m keeping a secret from my loved one.

No money for my boyfriend

Friday, 28 March 2008

I lied about how much money I have in order to make my boyfriend love/like me more. And now that we are getting ready to move in together he will find out. I feel awful. I can’t help him out like he thinks I can.

I am growing tired of my marriage

Tuesday, 11 March 2008

I love my husband. We have a great family. Sometimes I feel like I’ve had enough, though. Between our kids, work, studying and then the extra things we do for other family members, I get sick of giving all the time. I should be ashamed for not truly appreciating all the blessings, but right now I’m at my wits end. Everyday is the same monotony of resonsibility and each day its harder to choke down the feelings of resentment. I want to do more things that I like. I want to feel attractive and desired. I want to feel special and appreciated. I’m not sure if that’s what I’m looking for.

My husband said to me that he was mad that for years I haven’t been giving him the sex he wants. This is so insulting. With all I do, I have to put out more again. Where is the affection in return? I seem to keep trying to do better, but I don’t feel like he does that. He tries for a while and it’s not long before he goes back to no hugs type person that he is. How can a simple thing like showing affection be so hard to do? I’ve been saying it for years. Do you know how good it feels to have someone hold me on a dance floor and to feel like they really want me? Is that why I’m so interested in him? I really don’t know. But I want to do something for me. Something that I really want, that I will enjoy. Something exciting.

I suspect that my husband is gay

Tuesday, 19 February 2008

I believe their is a strong possibility that my husband of 13 years might be gay. I have always suspected his best friend and business parter to be a closeted gay and recent events of past years have made me speculate as to whether or not they have a sexual relationship. I definitely know that he is keeping something from me. I have known in my gut for over a year now but even with the help of a private investigator I was unable to get any solid proof. My secret is that I don’t love him anymore and I want a divorce but am afraid of upsetting my son’s life. I am also afraid of him since he has gotten violent with me when confronted in the past (found out he was addicted to porn internet, he said it must have been a virus or our computer was hacked into-yeah right conveniently when I was asleep or at work). I pray everyday that I find out what his secret is so I can reveal my secret and get on with my life.

I didn’t tell my boyfriend the entire story

Tuesday, 19 February 2008

A few months before I met my current boyfriend, I hooked up with a guy, messed around, and slept naked with him. I told my boyfriend I knew the guy was only interested in sex and I wasn’t interested ( which is the truth), but I held back the rest of the story because my boyfriend has trust issues. He’ll never find out about this unless I tell him, but I just had to get this off my chest.

I am thinking of leaving my boyfriend

Wednesday, 30 January 2008

What do I do? Leave my boyfriend? We have a house together, my kid loves him, my family thinks he is great, and actually he is one of those man that is nearly perfect. But, I don’t love him. I know I can be happy with him and I might learn to love him, but I am in love with somebody else. That somebody else is married, but getting a divorce. I’ve been with him since before they got married and she is the one that wants their marriage to end (she doesn’t know about us and I think she fell in love with somebody else). We had an understanding. I knew he was getting married and we stopped when he got married—that lasted about a year an a half. He knew I lived with someone and that it was serious. We fell in love we have been together for around 4 years. The thing is that now that he will no longer be married, he is leaving and I need to choose what I want to do. Be with him and not know what will happen (follow my heart) or stay with some one I don’t love and know that I can grow old with him? I am very confused.

I am getting bored of my boyfriend

Saturday, 19 January 2008

I am bored in my relationship. I have been going out with my boyfriend for quite some time and I love him so much. But the thing is that I am bored in my relationship. I don’t want to be with anyone else but him. But at the same time, I often find myself wondering if the grass is greener on the other side. I want to tell him so badly how bored I am but I don’t want to hurt his feelings.

Hiding my personality disorder

Wednesday, 12 December 2007

I was diagnosed with Borderline Personality Disorder 8 years ago and I am afraid to tell my boyfriend (of 1 year) because he may break up with me.

I have had a very active sex life

Wednesday, 05 December 2007

I cheated on my girl with another girl and I feel like crap. But I believe she messed around with my best friend and they won’t tell me the truth and it runs around in my head like track stars. I believe I would forgive them only if they would be honest with me. But I have feelings for other girls and I want sex like all the time which gets me in trouble. I have done things in my life that I am shamed of and I wish I could take back—like having sex with men and women. These secrets are ruining my life and I want them to stop. Thanks to everyone for reading this—I feel better about myself for sharing this.

I am tempted to cheat on my boyfriend

Tuesday, 04 December 2007

I have a boyfriend and I love him yet I still feel there’s something missing. I just recently met a guy and I am really infatuated with him. We were about to kiss but I was too scared. I don’t want to cheat on my boyfriend but I am very tempted. I don’t know what to do.

I am no better than her ex husband

Monday, 26 November 2007

I have been married for thirteen years. I am now separated and live with my three children. I met a woman who I adore, and for some time now we have been totally into each other. Recently since school has started again, we cannot find time to see each other as much, sometimes not for weeks.
Now, I have a difficult time even finding time to talk to her on the phone. I know she loves, and I love her. I just never hear or see her for such a long time.
I went out one night with some friends after I tried several times to contact her to no avail and I ended up going out with another woman, she meant nothing to me and I regret it every day. Now every time I hear her voice I want to cry. I know that if I tell her she will leave me. She is my life, I want to spend the rest of my life with her. I will never cheat on her again! God what have I done to the one thing in my life that actually mattered? She was cheated on by her ex-husband and now I am no better than he is. I will make every effort from this day forward to making it up to her with an undying love... forgive me.

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