Relationship Issues Secrets

I’m keeping a secret from my loved one.

Feel inadequate

Tuesday, 04 December 2012

I never feel that I’m good enough.

Miss you more than you will ever know

Tuesday, 27 November 2012

I haven’t spoken too you in 5 weeks I walked out the door for little reason and left you without a good bye I’ve ignored your calls I’ve despised your texts. I’ve ignored your poor 12 yr old beautiful daughter, begging too talk to me. I’ve ignored your mother begging me too come back. I long so much to walk the dog or too go ice skating again this Christmas—to sing our stupid songs, to have our Saturday night dinners, to fall asleep in your arms watching the psychics. I miss my best friend, the women I love, the women I’d do anything for. I miss making you dinner when you come home from work. I miss trying too take care of you. I miss sharing my life with you. I miss your beautiful smile. I’m on the ferry at he moment on my way home. Wish I could stay away. I’ll leave again as soon as I can. I know I’ll never find anyone like you again and I’ll miss you forever, my best friend. I want so much to hug you and love you. I miss you so much I’m so lonely without you. I’m so so sorry for everything. I shouldn’t have let things get this far. I’m so ashamed but now I know that I should have walked away the first time you threatened me with going back too him. I stayed in hope that you would love me and we could be a nice little family. I know every time you text and called him and like a fool I stayed the night you smirked at me and told me "I’ve been talking too Paul with a big stupid smile." I wanted too knock your head off instead I apologized for doing nothing wrong and thought I could get on with us then you promised you’d never talk too him again. I was so happy we agreed if you wanted to talk to him you’d leave my life and out of love I stayed and was so happy, but that didn’t happen.

Still love my cheating boyfriend

Friday, 23 November 2012

I think something’s wrong with me. I still love my boyfriend even though I believe he’s still cheating on me.

My sexual fantasies are getting the best of me

Thursday, 22 November 2012

I have a wonderful girlfriend but I have fantasies that I cannot tell her about. Our lack of communication is causing us to drift apart and I’m worried that I will lose her. I want to meet anonymous people for sex in parks at night... I want sex with four, five, six people at once... I want to lie back and have a man make strong love to me... I want to cheat for the thrill of being naughty... I want to dress in women’s clothes and have a woman make love to me with a strap on marital aid... These forbidden thoughts are creeping through the cracks in my conscience, weakening my resolve and waiting for the moment when they gush forth in a flood of hedonistic fantasy. I’m afraid that when I act on these thoughts my life will come crashing down and my beautiful darling girl will get hurt in the fall...

Difficult time dealing with my sexual desire

Tuesday, 20 November 2012

I love my girlfriend very much but I feel a constant and overwhelming desire to sleep with other people. I try to repress these feelings but they will not go away. My obsession is with sex and the thrill of new experiences. Every time I look at a woman I lust after her and wish I could feel her body, smell her, taste her and use her to satisfy my desires. These feelings are beginning to control my life. They are an addiction. I’m worried I’m about to throw away every thing good I have for these empty fantasies, but I suppressing them is driving me insane. I’m not sure what to do but I think something has to give...

My sexting is causing problems

Monday, 19 November 2012

I’ve been with a boy I absolutely adore for about 3 months. We’ve been seeing each other for about 11. We used to hookup about 2 years prior to all this. I sext. That is it, that is all. It bothers him (rightfully so) and I guess we had different opinions on what cheating was. I understand completely now, and this is the second instance I’ve sexted. I’m trying to rebuild our trust. I haven’t cheated on him. I guess I did it because I enjoyed the attention. He isn’t comfortable with his sexuality yet, and I feel distanced because of it. That’s all. We are going on a trip soon and I needed to vent! Xoxo

Truly in love with two men

Sunday, 18 November 2012

I am in love with two men! I’ve been married to the greatest man on earth for nearly 6 years....and have been having a emotional affair with the 2nd greatest man on earth for nearly 5 years! Yes I know how awful that sounds! Several times I have tried to cut off the affair....but I love him! I love them both in many different ways! But I love them! I don’t know how this happened and part of me wishes I’d never met him....but I did! Falling in love with him has never made me love my husband any less! I don’t know what to do!

Lusting after another woman

Saturday, 17 November 2012

Lust is huge for me, that’s not a secret to my close friends and my wife. Pornography too, also not a secret, and something I’m trying to get help with. What tipped the scales for my marriage was trying to take the infidelity from digital and fantasy to reality. Nothing ever happened with her. Even after she said she looked at me more like a father figure. She’s still an adult, but half my age, and I still insisted on telling her I liked her. Truth is, I had many chances to get open about this but had no idea how. The friendship was real, but a few weeks before this conversation I had a very vivid dream about a threesome with her and my wife. It was a vision that scared me, because it was so real and revealed that I liked her in that way. Still, I allowed that fantasy to replay in different ways in the days and weeks following. I wish I had gotten open about that sooner instead of allowing it to take root in my heart and shatter my marriage. I pray it’s not too late to recover the love and trust of my wife again.

Need to get this off my chest

Friday, 16 November 2012

I’m not fine, a lot of the time I feel like I don’t trust you, you flirted with me loads when you were with your ex, you cheated on her with me and another chick. I am attracted to women A LOT more than men.

Feel like cheating on my wife to get even

Friday, 16 November 2012

I cannot trust my wife. I am almost certain she has had an affair with a "friend." I am staying with her for the sake of my child. I think now about sex with other women as a way of getting even, even though I could not do it. I don’t think she would have came back—only the other guy brought in another woman.

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