Secrets about infidelity and cheating.
Cheated on her while I was drunk
I’ve been dating the most wonderful woman for the past three months, but two nights ago I cheated on her with someone who I had previously been friends with benefits. I was blackout drunk, and I don’t even remember it happening. When I woke up and realized what I’d done I broke down in tears; I’m still completely wracked with guilt. I want to tell her, but I’m not sure if that’s because I think she deserves to know so she can decide whether to keep this going, or if I want to tell her just to assuage my own guilt. I don’t think I’m going to confess. I love her, and I could see us going the distance, but I’m also afraid that the way I feel now will get in the way of our relationship.
Cheated on boyfriend with our best friend
I cheated on my boyfriend with our best friend. It was a one-time thing and we promise to take it to the grave with us. Because telling him will only hurt him and benefit no one. We both have something to lose that we don’t want to. And we don’t have any secret or deep feelings for one another.
Cheated on my boring boyfriend
I am in a committed relationship. I love him so much but he’s so boring. I went over to a friend’s house knowing that he likes me and wants to have sex with me. I wanted some excitement in my life. My fiancé doesn’t shower often which really turn me off about him. I was talking to my friend and one thing led to another. We were having sex, but I couldn’t continue any longer. I told him never again and rushed home to shower. I wanted to make sure all of his smell was gone. I know he’ll leave me if I tell him, but it was only one time. I won’t do it again. I can’t tell him because I don’t wanna hurt him.
Think my girlfriend knows I cheated
I cheated on my girlfriend and have a feeling she knows. But I do not wish to hurt her. I was ok with it for a while, but now guilt overwhelms me because I feel I have messed up something beautiful. I feel it destroyed some intimacy in the relationship. She may or not forgive me. I promise never to do it again. It’s not worth it. I thought it wouldnt affect me but now it does. I truly love my girlfriend.
Like the downlow
I am married and met up with another guy. All we did was get naked and touch each other but it was enough to give me tremendous amounts of guilt. I regret ever doing it. I hate myself but cannot tell my wife.
Cheat on everyone
I’ve cheated on many people and I feel guilty for none of it. I’ve never been broken up with, and I don’t recall feeling heartbreak. People say that I think I’m the shit because of my looks, but I just don’t understand their excessive attachment. I don’t mean to come off as a jerk, but I do not get it. I say I’m sorry, but I know I don’t mean it. I know Karma is going to get me one day and break my heart as I have done to some, but until then I will keep attempting to understand.
I did cheat
I cheated on my boyfriend right after we became exclusive, because I agreed to commitment before I was ready. Now I am fully committed, and the guilt is eating away at me.
Feel like cheating
I love my boyfriend, but I want to cheat on him.
Cheated with five guys
I cheated on my bf during our lowest point. With 5 men. I felt worthless and unwanted. I was desperate to feel something. What I did was wrong and completely against my character. The guilt is killing me and I’m unsure if I can live with this but I also don’t want to hurt the man I love.
Cheated on my wife from day one
I was unfaithful to my wife from the first moment. I was addicted to sex and paid prostitutes and street transvestites from the very beginning of the relationship. Later, when I got money, I paid prostitutes, men and women, and orgies. Today we are separated, and my wife never found out. Now I’m not promiscuous but I made her suffer and I’m sorry for my deceit.
But I cannot tell anyone. Thank you for allowing me to write this.
Two guys who were not my boyfriend
I hooked up with two other guys at one weekend even though I have kind of a boyfriend for like 3 months now. I don’t want to tell him because I am too scared of how it could end! I feel terribly guilty and still regret what happened. I am too confused to talk about it with anyone... even my friends who were with me and saw how I cheated.
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