Secrets about infidelity and cheating.
Feeling guilty about cheating on boyfiend
There is a strong sexual tension between myself and my boyfriend’s best friend, who happens to be my closest friend also. This tension has never been satisfied sexually, but through a drunken night of cuddling and another drunken night of talking and a kiss that was way inappropriate. These feelings are almost nonexistent in sober situations, which is why I’m a bit confused as to what this is—aside from disrespectful to my boyfriend. My boyfriend is an amazing man and I could never ask for more in a mate. I am a bit concerned about committing to spend the rest of my life with someone that I would do this to, even though I DO love him. We are not going to tell him because it will NEVER happen again. I feel very guilty about this and our best friend seems to be fine with this. I would like to avoid him because I feel uncomfortable. He seems to want to hang out with and not affected by what happened with us.
Mother-in-law made a move on me
My mother in law seduced me within a year of my marriage.
Unhappily married and I cheated
I have been married for 8 years and have 4 children. The relationship has always been rather rocky, as evidenced by our innumerable separations. There have been multiple deeds on both our parts that have hurt each other in the past. I also wouldn’t characterize my marriage as being "happy." I recently went on a business trip and met a girl who was very flirtatious with me. I initially rejected her advances, but eventually when she showed up in nothing but a bathrobe at my hotel door, relented. I have never done anything like this before, and feel horrible. I plan on changing and being a better father and husband.
Excitement of cheating
Where to begin, this story... My girlfriend in college I cheated on once right before the relationship was over, and a few times with some street walkers (for $20 a pop). I would drive around till 6 or 7 am looking for street walkers,
it was the excitement of doing it.
Fast forward to my present relationship, I have been unfaithful, but it never really bothered me until she confronted me. Now because I had to lie so openly about it bothers me, and I suspect her more to. I have gone to a prostitute, which is so dangerous, but again the "excitement" keeps me going. And I have had a few encounters with other women... I feel guilty and want to come clean, but want to spare her the suffering... what can I do?
Send a letter to his wife
I am seeing a married man. We dated in high school and were reunited after almost 20 years. I love him and I want to believe he loves me. I want him to ask for a divorce. Maybe I should sent an anonymous letter to the wife. The letter doesn’t have to say who she is but maybe it would force him to fess up and make a choice...
I am having an affair with a married man. I have been married for 25 years. I hate myself for doing this but cannot seem to stop. The other man does not will not leave his wife or children. I am very depressed and lonely.
Friend on the Side
I have recently found a wonderful man and love him very much. I know he loves me as well but he has a low sex drive and that doesn’t make me feel very sexy. It may be my problem but I found that keeping a "friend" on the side boosts my ego. Someone who is readily able and tells me how sexy I am... it really helps. I feel guilty about this.
Can’t stop cheating on my boyfriend
I’ve been in a relationship with my boyfriend for three years now and the whole time we have been together has been nothing but fake because I have been cheating on him since day one. I love him dearly but I always find myself messing around with other men but I want to stop. He knows about my cheating ways but he doesn’t know that I’m still doing it with someone he knows. I’m so confused because I don’t want anybody but him, but I still tend to cheat on him and he is such a sweetheart.
I am the other woman online
I have been chatting with this guy who is older than me, for a while now and he is married, we flirt and play cutesy with one another. He is charming and intelligent and I really do enjoy my time chatting with him. I guess, that he is emotionally cheating on his wife... But they were having issues in their marriage before I came along... Now there is really no chance, of meeting him, since he lives a considerable distance and yet I am very drawn to him and it is so unlike me. Sigh... He talks about his marriage and I give him advice for making it work... Maybe it is to easy my own mind... and I do not want to be the reason for a divorce. I also get the impression that he wants me to tell him to leave his wife, but I will not do that... So I will keep chatting with him and see where it goes...
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Cheating on my emotionally distant husband
I have been married for 5 years now and it has been hell the last 3 years. I have cheated on my husband. I have a husband that is a great provider if it comes down to material things but not when I need an emotionally connection. I find myself so guilty about it because I know if I ever found out that he did that I would not be able to take that but I never told him how far things went with other men. I would like to think I could share this with him, but it won’t ever happen.