Secrets about infidelity and cheating.
Sex with my best friend
I’m sleeping with and have become attached to my best friend. My fiancé who lives 4000 miles away thinks my friend is gay. Obviously he’s not. We both know this would never work out—I’m engaged with grown kids and he’s younger. His mom would want him to have his own children. I am happy when we’re together, not necessarily in the bedroom.
My affair got discovered
I have been involved with a married man for over a year and a half, online. His marriage was on the rocks as was mine. I separated from my husband and several months later traveled to see the man I had fallen in love with. It was an amazing trip and time together but we both realized we couldn’t make it work because of our children and the distance. His wife came to visit him as they’d been living apart for the year and a half and discovered I’d been to visit him and that we had sex. She was devastated, understandably so. I never meant to hurt her...I cannot believe what I have done.
Feeling rejected after cheating on my husband
I cheated on my husband with his good friend. He told me he has always had a crush on. Kept recalling things from the past I had said to him. After it was done he said he couldn’t do it anymore. He didn’t like hurting my husband. I don’t feel guilty just rejected.
Regret having an affair
I recently ended a sexual affair I had been having since May. My husband and I are trying to survive my infidelity and make our marriage work. There are days when I am consumed by thoughts of the other man. I have promised my husband that I will not contact him, but it is killing me inside. I know that the other man does not want a relationship and I know that I need to work through this and concentrate on my marriage. I just want the pain and shame and guilt to end.If you are reading this and thinking about having an affair, don’t! It will not end well and many people will be hurt including you.
Hope the guilt of cheating goes away
I have cheated on my girlfriend and feel terrible about it. I did this once years ago and felt really bad for such a long time and vowed never to do this again. Have been with my current girlfriend for about 3 years now and she is looking toward the next steps and getting married. There have been some doubts in my mind about her and I wasn’t sure if she was the one for me. It sounds so cliche but now I really love her and the thought of coming clean is killing me, it sounds so selfish. I’m the one who has been a bastard and have done wrong but I am feeling so caught up in my own guilt right now it is hard to think straight, I wish it could all go away and that we could live a happy life together like it never happened. I hope this message will help, and from now on I will be able to deal with this problem hope I can overcome this problem altogether.
BDSM with a married man
I’ve had a bdsm ‘thing’ with a good old married man devoted to work and his family for over a year. I’m not a fall in love person. Yet feel so strongly it hurts. I’m alone. Married. Alone and dying. Wish I’d never met him. All that I know now is how alone I will be forever. I’m thru.
Need to get my cheating off of my chest
I had sex with a guy and lied to my boyfriend about it. We aren’t even technically together, but we’ve been working on things. I told him that we merely kissed to relieve some guilt. He is already very mad with me and finds it hard to talk to me at the moment..I have no intention on telling him, but worry he’ll find out. Myself and the man I cheated with agreed that this story I have, actually "happened". I have the frame of mind that me living with this guilt is punishment enough. No need to make others feel worse than needed. I have no feelings for this man and this problem won’t reoccur. I want to be with my boyfriend for the rest of my life....phew feels better to get that off my chest..
Both cheating on each other
My ex-boyfriend broke my heart a couple of years ago. We’ve been on and off for years now. I couldn’t let go of how he hurt me, I couldn’t get past it. Since then I’ve been cheating on him more then I’d like to admit. I hacked his facebook and found out he has been meeting up with an ex girlfriend and talking to another. I should be hurt but I’m not.. I’ve been cheating on him the whole time. I don’t think we’re bad people.. but we do bad things, I guess it’s best we go our different ways. Why did this happen? Why would we do this to each other..
My husband is cheating and I am going crazy
My 33year old husband had an affair with his 18 year old coworker. He lied practically the entire 2 months that it went on, unsure as to who he wanted. When he did decide on staying in the marriage he still wouldn’t give up his "friend". He’s promised to end things with her on several occasions but can never actually do it. I’ve looked through phone records, facebook, his email. Every time I find something new that he’s hidden from me. I’ve thought about software to monitor him online or about hiring a detective. I have two children with him so i don’t want to divorce unless I’m absolutely sure he’s still being unfaithful. This is all killing me. I just started counseling and I’m beginning to lose faith. My secret is that I promise him forever but I’m so close to calling it quits. Guys at work are starting to look good to me. I fantasize about sex with them. I’m so lost and broken.
Am the other woman
I am in love with a married man and I want him and i don’t care what anybody thinks. He wants me too but he can’t leave his wife because she would get everything. So, I keep doing what he wants because I love him.
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