Infidelity Secrets
Secrets about infidelity and cheating.
I have cheated more than I have admitted
I have only admitted to one affair when in my entire marriage I have had several meaningless affairs and one sexting only affair that lasted 5 years.
I have cheated on my wife a lot
I cheat at on my wife of 14 years about 30 times and she does not know that. Once I even cheated with a man.
I cheated and maybe so did he
I’ve been in a relationship for 2 yrs. When I met my partner he was married, lied and told me he was single. I never trusted him after that. His spouse and him finally divorce a few months ago. Last year I was gone for 6 mths do to my job—while i was gone I was torturing myself with thoughts of him with other women that I ended up cheating on him. I slept with 3 men while I was gone. Till this day I deny it when he questions me. But funny thing is when I returned he changed his phone number and his actions are very questionable... so maybe things happen for a reason.
Alcohol and cheating on you
I cheated on you three times. I want to tell you but I know you will not understand how it happened and how you really can still trust me. I’m pretty sure I have an alcohol problem. I tried to tell you before, but addiction is deceptive and once it took hold of me again, I convinced you I was fine. I cannot fully recall any of the incidents of cheating. I feel like I am the worst human being on earth, especially because I was planning to ask you to marry me in around a months time. I really do want to marry you, but I know I can’t because of what I have done. I can’t tell you because I don’t think you can properly understand how a drinking problem really can make these things happen. What I know to be true is that I love you more than I’ve ever loved anything.
Do not like having sex with my partner
I am a woman in a long-term relationship. My partner is a kind, decent, sweet man, would make an excellent father if I ever decide to have children, that sort of man. We’re the same age, I love spending time with him, he makes me laugh and all that, but unfortunately I’m just not that attracted to him physically any more. It makes me feel awful and shallow for saying it but he’s so small (5’3") and so skinny (under 50kg) compared to me that sex feels quite weird. He’s not very good either, despite my gentle coaching, and refuses to use his fingers or mouth on me. Sooooo when a tall, handsome, charming (and slighty older) man drops into my life like a meteorite I’m suddenly, insanely, physically attracted to him. To cut a long story short we got drunk at a party and ended up seriously making out on the bus home. He offered to take me back to his place for more and it took real effort not to say yes. You can see where this is going. I began to fantasize about this other man during sex with my partner. I try not to but when you’re physically unsatisfied for years and years then get an amazingly attractive man interested in you... yeah. I may or may not see the other man ever again (I haven’t arranged to specifically see him but we have a common hobby). I’m worried that if I do, I won’t be able to say no this time. And I’m worried that I wouldn’t regret it as much as I should...
Know my boyfriend is cheating
My boyfriend of five years is cheating on me. He’s cheated several times before this. We have a two week old sob. I am absolutely a wreck.
Thinking about cheating on my wife
My wife has recently admitted that she was having an affair with her ex-husband for several years. I have read many of their emails to each other and I think they would make porn stars blush! We have 2 kids and I want to work it out, but I also want to take care of myself. I am trying to give myself permission to go outside of our relationship if the opportunity arises. I have not actively sought companionship with anyone, but I am very attracted to a young lady in a yoga class. Don’t want anything long-term, just have a few laughs, have some hot sex, have somebody else tell me she wants me so I can feel better. Not sure if that will help, but that’s what I want.
I knew my husband was cheating
I found out that my husband was cheating and for how long he thought I didn’t. I knew who it was when I was told third party. He hid money from me. His own family knew that he was with someone else and treated me and my son like we belonged for three years of torture. We had a daughter and he got her involved with this women that he thought he had hidden so deeply from me. When I confronted him and asked him the defensive man came out and it only made it easier to not trust or believe him ever again.
Lied about cheating and hate it
I cheated on my wife and told her about it. But I lied and said that I only kissed the other woman when in fact we had sex. My wife has NEVER had sex with anyone but me and she still believes I have never had sex with anyone but her. The secret is eating me alive but I am too afraid to tell her the truth because I think she will leave me or not love me anymore. I’m starting to lose my mind.
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Wild sex with a younger man
I recently went away for a night and met a gorgeous random guy who is also a lot younger than me. We had great sex in my hotel room and text each other still. I would love to see and touch him again but uncertain due to the age gap. I am also married with teenagers.