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Cheating on husband
I have only been married for 2 1/2 years and have had 7 affairs. And I do feel guilty but still do not want him to ever find out. And I still continue to seek other men.
My cheating heart
My boyfriend and I have been going out for over a year. I’ve cheated on him once with one of my old boyfriends and I have a feeling I might do it again. I love him so much! I dont understand why I would have such horrible thoughts? How can you stop yourself from doing the deed again?
Slept with coworker
I have been married for almost 10 years. Together for 14. The opportunity came to have an affair with a coworker that I had fantasies about while we were away on a business trip. After drinking a few we hooked up. I freaked out the next day when I first saw him but he assured me that we were ok. He is a boss in another state thank goodness so I dont have to see him very often. It was great and I have thought of him constantly. My husband is so sweet and loving but something is missing. I would do it again if the opportunity came up. I felt bad at first but now I have accepted that it happened and will not happen ever with anyone else but this one person. He is married and is very unhappy but will never leave his wife nor will I ever leave my husband. There has to be something wrong with me.
I am cheating
I have been having a relationship with a man that I’ve known for years. He is technically married, but has been separated from his wife for over 10 years. They are now finalizing the divorce. We have know each other during other relationships (each of us) and we still keep the friendship going. He is currently seeing a woman from his work (about a year) that he was fixed with by his director. He still sees me as well. He claims he doesn’t have sex with her because he’s not attracted to her. I don’t really believe that, but he claims that because he is older and has a medical condition, he uses that as an excuse not to have sex with her. He is perfectly capable of having sex, as I know by experience. She doesn’t have a clue about my existance but I know all about her. With this arrangement I have a regular sex partner, yet have my freedom to life my life without complication, which suits me just fine. I feel guilty, at times, about this other woman who has no clue, but figure it is his responsiblity to enlighten her. Ok, well that is what was on my mind...
He cheated on me
well......I have been with this guy for almost 1 year. In the past anytime I have had dreams about the guy I’m with messing around on me......it has always been true. My ex husband had cheated on me with my best friend. I had a dream every night for 1 yr until he broke down & told me then they stopped. I had the same thing happen with this guy. And guess what? He did cheat on me. He had another woman sleep at his house one night and I was told all they did was kiss. I love him but I do not trust him. It is so very hard…
Cheated last night
Last night I spent the night with another guy! It was amazing and is certainly not the first time I have cheated on my partner. I really need to move on from this now soured relationship and date as a singleton rather than date others whilst still being with my partner. I know I am wasting my life with him, but its gaining the courage to move on that I find so hard! Especially when all our friends much prefer him to me... And he has grown ever more dependant on me and I am extremely independent and always have been.
I had a short whirlwind affair with a co-worker and thought it was turning into more, even to the point that I broke it off with my long distance boyfriend and thought that he had done the same with his girlfriend of 5 years. But, my co-worker recently kicked me to the curb and he is now back with his girlfriend. I am so hurt. My heart is broken. He told me he loved me and promised he wasn’t going to break my heart. I feel like such a loser. Why did he lead me on? I can’t eat or sleep and I’m having trouble concentrating on work now. All I can think about is him and her together and hating that they are alright and I’m a mess. I wish I knew what to do.
I love getting sensual massages and usually get at least one and sometimes two a month. My wife doesn’t know about this and I’m not going to tell her. Our love life at home has gotten stale and predictable and this provides me all the excitement I feel I am missing at home.
I have done sensual massages and my hubby would divorce me if he knew.
More than one love
After 10 years of marriage I fell in love with a 19 year old girl who lives out of state from where I am; for job reasons. I have been divorced for 3 years now but we are still at the same pace. Last year I met a married woman who I believe is much more in love with me; we spend a lot more time together even though she lives in a separate state. I am waiting for my, now 26 year old to tell me it is over between us, because I don’t think I can do it myself. I am more confident about my new love; she wants to separate soon from her husband so she’d be free to live with me. I am confused and don’t know where to turn.
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