Secrets about infidelity and cheating.
Know I’m going to continue to cheat
I have been with my boyfriend of three and a half years and slept with two different people, one was a one night stand, the other, a beautiful friend from school. The sick part is, the last time I slept with my friend, I loved it, and didn’t feel bad until a couple days later. I want to be a stronger person, and move on from my past mistakes, but I know it will probably happen again and I will enjoy it just as much.
Cheating with a married man
After six years of marriage, I cheated on my husband. I was so bored with him sexually. I will continue to do it, I have a job that gives me endless excuses that are believable to help me be gone for long periods of time. The man I’m cheating with is married too, I don’t care. It’s the best sex ever! Word of advice to women, if you want to cheat because you are bored out of your mind with sex with your spouse do it and don’t feel guilty. Make sure the guy you cheat with is married too makes it easier he has as much to loose as you do. I don’t want to divorce my husband he is a nice guy, I just need incredible sex to live! Also try to find out of town business men that are staying in town for long term assignments a few months or so sometimes to cheat with, no long term attachment makes it easier. Look on Craigslist to find them for mind-blowing sex, I did and I love every minute of it.
Deal with my frustration by cheating
Although I love my fiance, he doesn’t ignite my passionate side. I am affectionate and adventurous in the romance department, he is not. I am not going to leave him because I know he is good for me and his presence in my life gives me a sense of stability. He was my first real boyfriend when I was 15, and although we broke up when I was 19, we continued to keep in contact over the years. We resumed our relationship about two years ago, right before I turned 28. I love him, but the lack of affection has caused me to make mistakes. I take full responsibility to my infidelity.
Another secret—I started communicating and sleeping with my ex whom I was with during the years that me and my fiance weren’t together. Sadly, I don’t feel guilty. Although I cheat on him every five months or so, that still doesn’t take away the fact that I’m wrong.
My problems with my fiance are beyond the scope of sexual satisfaction. He can be cold and very harsh at times. He totally neglected me for months before I sought affection from my ex. I mistakenly made my fiance a priority when his treatment of me made me feel like an option. His priorities lay with his child’s mother which is another story completely. He is not a saint and I’ve found suspicious things that point to his infidelities, but no hard proof. His cold and callous nature towards me for a time, combined with the things I saw made me feel like I was being cheated on. So I retaliated. He found out. He played the innocent victim. He was the victim, but not so innocent. Two days after he found out I cheated on him, he admitted that he felt like he deserved it because he knew how bad he treated me. In my mind, that confirmed my suspicions.
After this he was super-duper nice to me, and we have been relatively problem free for the past year. He still doesn’t show me a whole lot of affection and he rents a car and leaves town every two weeks with the claim that he is going to see his daughter or his grandma while I sit at home. He is more considerate lately, but a lot more secretive. I don’t get enough physical satisfaction, and when we do have sex it isn’t what I’d like it to me. Simply put, he is a selfish lover. I’ve come to the conclusion that I have two options: put up with it or let it go. I choose to stay and when the sexual frustration builds up, I spend the night with my ex.
Just cheated on my boyfriend
I just seduced and slept with the guy that got away because my boyfriend isn’t here. I now know that my boyfriend is the only one for me but I tarnished what we had :(
Cheating on my husband and I’m going crazy
I have been with my husband for 10 years now. Since day one he been having issues with cheating. The first 6 years I never thought of cheating on him. I was a stay home mom and my life revolve around my kids and him but lately at the time I felt him distance from me. We did our separate things. He will leave with his coworkers and drink come home late drunk. While I stayed at home watch the kids. I felt really bad for myself. My husband will never defend me from his family. I was tired of being hurt over n over. I got pregnant again 3rd child he wanted me to abort, he almost convince me but my mother said no. I had my child and he got injured 2 years off from work. I was tired of his insults, mistreats and said to myself I need to do something with my life. I started college and then got a job. I meet someone while working. That person had a gf and my intentions were only to be friends but his intentions was to mess around. I was like whatever let’s do this so we did it for like almost 1year and half. But we got too attach and had to let go of each other. Later on my cousin came around with a friend. That friend started to work for my brother. Well I had a lot of communication with that friend that were close but didn’t see each other with different eyes until people started to say me n the friend had something going on. We never did. One day my husband told me your friend like you. I’m like no way. I ask my friend he said no. Well that night I had a sexual dream about him. I told my friend about my dream and I asked him if he was down with it. It took him like 2 weeks to respond. Well we did it just for fun at first. This escalated for almost 2 years. We have been on and off. At first my friend would push me away and want me back. I didn’t understand him. We push each other away. But finally he made into my heart I fell in love with him idk how to take him out of my system. I’m going crazy.
cheated on my boyfriend with HIM
I cheated on my boyfriend. LB and I had sex. Why did i let it happen? I didn’t want to. I let it happen because he wanted me and for years and I wanted him. I was curious about what it would be like. He told me I had a pretty face. He said a pretty face was very important. I always wanted him to say that to me. We will always have romantic feelings for each other but in a very.. almost archaic sense—brute attraction. But I don’t want him. I don’t want to be with him. I decided long ago I never wanted to be with or with someone like him. There has always been sexual tension and I never really knew how to deal with it. This was not the right way to deal with it. I do love ST and I see our life together as one. And as something very beautiful.
My wife has betrayed me and destroyed my family
My wife had a bisexual affair with a girlfriend of hers. When they eventually broke up, she began a secret affair with the same woman’s husband. That eventually led to two families with young children being broken apart.
Feeling guilty about having a long-term affair
I have been married for 15 years and have been seeing someone on the side for 8 of those years. It has taken an emotional toll on me resulting in anxiety and panic attacks. My wife has been nothing but good to me and still I treated her badly by engaging in this affair. I’m paying for it now. I wish I would have never started the affair. My wife doesn’t know about it and that makes me feel even worse. I ended the affair last week and I am trying to heal myself mentally so i can rededicate my life to my wife and daughter. Thanks for reading I had to get it off my chest.
Afraid the truth will end my relationship
I’ve cheated on my girlfriend two months ago. I had sex with another woman, and its killing me. I thought we were over, that I’d never see Janie (my girlfriend) again, and that I was going to start a relationship with another woman. But after one month had pasted, Janie and I worked out our problems, and went to her country (Taiwan) together. It was a blast, even though her mom was a rude to me, meeting her whole family was fun. The woman I cheated with and I lied to cover up the secret when it came out, my best friend had told someone, who then messaged Janie. This happened while we were still in Taiwan, so I couldn’t escape, so like I stated before, I lied. I’ve never been the type to break down, I’ve always been strong in every relationship, during whatever problem was before me, even death. But this one, this one thing that I’ve done is seriously KILLING me. I can’t escape what I’ve done, while I myself have been with many women, not sexually, Janie has only been with one man her whole life, me. I’ve been cheated on three times in my life, and have always been the one to have been let go even if my feelings were gone for the other, to give them a sense of closure. But I can’t let this one go, I love this girl so deeply. I want to marry this girl one day, I’ve honestly found the one after searching and being hurt for so long. I’ve got to have her, but I have no idea what to do. I want to tell her, I promised I’d tell her everything. Everyday I think about telling her, sometimes its on the tip of my tongue. But something stops me, I feel as if she will leave me if she hears it, and that we wont work thru this problem. Janie was my first, and I want her to be my last. I love this Janie so much, and regret everything
Boring sex life led to cheating
I have a girlfriend of 4 years and we have children together. I have slept with two other women in the past year. I love my girlfriend and would love to marry her, but we do not have much of a sexual relationship, maybe once a month. She always comes up with excuses, so I started going to strip clubs and meeting strippers, after that got old, I started meeting women at work, and eventually just started talking to women I found attractive. I am fairly attractive, and am finding it easier and easier to meet and sleep with more and more attractive women.
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