Secrets about infidelity and cheating.
Questioning my situation
I have been seeing a married man for 7 years. I am married too but not living together. I don’t think I am in love with my MM. He has too many emotional problems. He turns me off when he gets so anxious and over the top with his actions. Its like drama class all over again.
Sex is really good. His wife is not attractive at all. He looks like he is aging very fast. I am wondering why I am here still?
Confessed to some mistakes
I cheated on my girlfriend several times while we together. I confessed about one time, and it almost broke us up, but we held it together, only to break up later because of my fears and guilt. After breaking up I was very sad without her and tried to get back together, but ended up confessing another one of the infidelities, making her and myself feel shitty, and ruining possible chances. I still have two other infidelities with her I’m keeping to myself. I think she may be the very special one for me, and they are so minor, but I don’t know whether I really need to confess or not. They were long ago, stupid, and didn’t mean anything, really. But I am obsessive with my thoughts sometimes.
Cheated on traveling boyfriend
While my partner was getting to travel abroad for several months, I created an internet hookup profile to get attention. In doing so, I had some one night stands while he was away.
Hate myself for cheating when drunk
I’m 20 years old and my boyfriend is 23. We have been together 3 and a half years and I’ve never felt this way about anyone before. The relationship is good and I love him so much. However I am keeping a terrible secret, I have cheated on him quite a few times. It has always been when Ive been drunk and I have never went as far as full sex. I don’t know why I do it and I hope I don’t do it again. I want to tell him but I know he will finish with me if I do. I hate myself so much for it, I punish myself every day and cant get it out my head. I cant talk to ANYONE about it and I’m going crazy. I know I have to get rid of this guilt somehow and move on. I HATE MYSELF for it :(
His best friend
I cheat on my boyfriend with his best friend every day.
I love cheating
I love cheating!!!!! It is exciting, thrilling, challenging. Being with someone new and testing the boundaries gives me an adrenaline rush. It isn’t that I don’t love my partner, I really do. It isn’t about getting caught either. It is that pure carnal sex of two people groping and have hot, wild, unencumbered sex that turns me on. Some of the best sex I have had has been in one night stands!!!! I especially love to take control of men and they seem to love an aggressive sexual woman.
Cheating on my boyfriend in a long distance relationship
I’ve cheated on my boyfriend of 2 1/2 years for most of our relationship. A little over half a year ago I moved 12 hours away to go to college and we attempted to stay together. I cheated on him a lot and we broke up a few times because the distance got to us. I love him a lot though, we are perfect when we are together and I think that’s why I cheat, because I want someone THERE with me. I regret a lot of the guys I’ve been with, and I know that if I could go back to the very beginning and not cheat in the first place; my relationship with my boyfriend would be perfect. But I can’t/don’t know how to tell him.. and I don’t deserve him because of it, but he really loves me and when I try to break up with him he fights me and says we’re not breaking up. I’ve even told him that I’ve cheated on him a few times and he says he doesn’t care, that we can get through it. I don’t know what to do. I told him I wanted to take a lot of time apart and completely restart fresh months or maybe a year or two down the road. But all he wants is to be with me, either way I go I hurt him and I don’t know what to do.
Promise to never cheat again
I had sex with somebody else. It was great. But afterward I started hating the guy I cheated with—he is a jerk. I can’t believe I let him get the upper-hand on my bf. It was also at a difficult time in our relationship. But now me and my bf are getting married and I can’t tell him. Never. And if it comes out I will lie and say it’s not true. HE won’t take it well. Telling him will only make me feel better not him. I love him. Please keep my secret. I’m going to be good to him from now on. Never cheat again.
Regret cheating on my wife
About 9 months ago, I had sex with a prostitute. I have been married for 7 years, and have two beautiful children, 3 and 5 years old. I love my wife, and I did it out of curiosity, and regret it ever since. I had a horrible dream 2 weeks ago. That she found out, and left with the kids. My family is my life. I don’t know what i would do without them. I really have the perfect wife and kids, and I don’t know why i did it. anyway, since the dream, I have been extremely anxious, sleeping maybe 3 hours a day, and depressed with loss of appetite, etc. She was cheated on in high school, and was scarred badly. I helped her through it, and for me to do this is reprehensible. I have no intentions of doing this again. it was not an emotional thing, but purely lust to be with another woman. stupid stupid stupid. i have told a co-worker, and that helped. i just keep thinking that i should tell her, but it would devastate her, and i would lose what i live for, which is my family.
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Know I love my wife
I’ve been married to my wife for twelve years and love her very much, we have two children together and would hate to break their hearts. I don’t know what came over me, but I visited a prostitute although I didn’t have full sex with her, she gave me a blowjob. Since then I have felt really bad about it.
I know if I was to tell her the truth it would shatter her. I know that I have learned my lesson, and will not be doing that again.