Secrets about infidelity and cheating.
Divorced other woman
I am a divorced woman who has fallen in love with a taken man. Unfortunately, rumours have taken hold and I am now pushed aside. Although he is completely unhappy in his relationship, he doesn’t want to give up what he thinks he has, which isn’t much. I don’t understand why a man or a woman in a childless, miserable relationship would not want to seek what makes them happy. Life is too short to spend the duration of it unhappy. Hopefully, I will get over this soon and move onto someone who is single and can love me the way I love them.
Want wife to know
I have been dating a married man for over 4 years and lately I’ve been feeling like I want his wife to know what is going on. Just because of the type of person she is. She thinks the world revolves around her because she is pretty, and she has a bad attitude towards others. They have 2 nice cars, money, etc the good life but little does she know that her husband even performs oral sex on me. I would never tell but secretly I want her to know.
I have been married for 28 yrs. My 1st exploit was with very attractive lady appx 10 years younger than myself. It went on for appx 3 yrs she took a job in another state. I think of her often. I love my wife but love the attraction of other women. 5 years ago I met a married lady whom I felt was the type of person who wouldn’t cheat on (a cheater). 2 years ago I found out that see was seeing someone else as well as my self. We fell in love with each other, myself thinking that there was no one else involved. Finding out was the worst thing that could have happened to me. I am a very jealous person. We still talk and this makes me feel that we might be able to work thru this but when I call and leave a msg on her cell and she doesn’t respond I get angry and wonder if she’s with him. It has bothered my relationship with my wife (however she doesn’t know about this woman) and it effects my sleep and work environment. I just don’t know what to do....
Had to cheat
I had to cheat on my husband to have my first real orgasm.
I have been cheating on my boyfriend for the past 4 years, emotionally and physically.
The first time I cheated (it was only a kiss), I felt horrible and told him about it. After several months he forgave me and we got back together. I continued to stay in touch with the person I cheated with, and ended up falling for him, while I was still in a relationship with my boyfriend. Eventually I fell out of love with "the other man," but every since the first time I cheated I have not been able to stay faithful. The bad thing is that the cheats have gotten progressively worse. The first time was just a kiss. The next time I cheated I ended up being in a completely seperate relationship and having sex with the other person on numerous occasions. I’ve had sex with 4 other people on a consistent basis since I’ve been with my boyfriend, yet I am scared to tell him the truth for fear of loosing him for good. There was even one point in time when I was having sex with one of the other men just about every other day. I would tell my boyfriend that I was spending the night over a friend’s house when I was actually going to see a "booty call." There is no way that I could actually confess this to my boyfriend. I have feelings for my boyfriend but fear that I stay with him for security reasons and not because he makes me happy. I know he will be there for me when I need help and I am scared to give that up for a relationship that may not work out.
Cheat a lot
I cheated on my boyfriend numerous amount of times in the last couple years of our 7 year relationship. I haven’t been happy and couldn’t break up with him. He does suspect and I try to stay with him without decieving him again everytime. I still feel this could be worked out between us.
When I met my first boyfriend, i was still a virgin, and had only ever kissed a boy. i spent the next 5 years of my life true to him and never once looked at another bloke, but he was 3 years older than me so he was out in the clubs with his mates and was having sex with so many women behind my back and all along i knew, i found out everytime but still never broke up with him.
Eventually when i had had enough i broke up with him. Since then i have never been able to trust men, i have had many boyfriends and have enjoyed all of their company, but i have never stayed faith full to any of them.
14 months ago i met a man from London we spent 2 months together and then he travelled home. The thing is i feel as though i can trust him, for the first time in so long i feel i can trust again. We talk everyday on the phone and see each other all the time, the thing is that i have cheated on him so many times. I would be with a boyfriend over here and he’d ring and i’d go out of the room tell him i love him and then go back to my boyfriend.
My point is that i have finally found trust in someone else, but now i can’t trust myself because of the lies I am telling him, and my lies have been to the 4 men that i have been seeing all at the same time, and my worst lie is to myself for believing that i can ever be in a loving or trustworthy relationship.
Deception to a person is cruel, but deception to yourself is emotional suicide.
My boyfriend doesn’t know that I liked having sex with more than one guy at a time.
Planning an affair
I’m planning to have an affair, and then seperate from my wife and 3 year old son. I’m too afraid to leave her without a safety net. I’m a coward, and can’t face the idea of life alone. So, I’m chasing several prospective lovers already. In the meantime, she thinks everything is fine. She loves me.
Love at work
I’ve been having an affair with an out of state married co-worker. My boyfriend has no idea. I would leave him in an instant if my married man were to get a divorce!
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