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I’m in love with someone I should be.

I have a crush on my wife’s best friend

Wednesday, 25 November 2009

I am crazy about my wife’s best friend. I am happily married for a long time with kids. But it has become dull. I still love my wife but more as a really good friend. I would rather spend time with her best friend than her. It makes me feel guilty that I would rather spend time with her friend than her.

In love with my boyfriend’s best friend

Tuesday, 10 November 2009

A year ago, I found out my boyfriend had cheated on me. I did my best to forgive and forget but it was impossible. I ended up sleeping with his best friend at the time, who had become my personal confidant about my boyfriend and my issues in our relationship. It was a one time thing but me and our friend have continued to talk ever since. While I do love my boyfriend for everything that he is, this other man is everything and so much more and I have found myself completely in love with him now. I don’t know what to do as he is married to someone else and I live with my boyfriend. While I know he is still attracted to me, both physically and mentally, I don’t know if he has the same feelings for me that I have for him, so I live in silence for fear of ruining what is a wonderful friendship.

I have a horrible crush on my boss

Sunday, 08 November 2009

I can’t stop thinking about sleeping with my boss. We have never actually done anything or even come close, but every time I am in the same room as him I just want to jump him. I think about him when he isn’t around and wonder what it would be like to even just share a kiss. I have no idea if he feels the same way, but can’t help but feel that there has to be some sort of attraction on his end because of the way we look at each other. But then I start thinking that I may be making all this up in my head and he just views me as a professional. He is 43 and never been married and has that little bit of flirtation to him... I am 25 and have a boyfriend who I love very much. I even feel bad about the way I think about my boss which makes me think I definitely shouldn’t act on it, because I will feel horrible. I have never cheated and never even thought about it seriously until now obviously. I just wanted to put this out there because I feel so wrong liking him this way, but just cant help wanting to be kinda bad!

In love with my married best friend

Thursday, 22 October 2009

I am madly in love with my married best friend and just found out that he loves me too.

I am in love with my neighbor

Thursday, 24 September 2009

I am a woman in love with a wonderful and beautiful woman. She moved in next door about a year ago. She has a very loving husband and they have been happily married for 13 years. I like her husband as well. Though I have lived with my partner for 30 some years, our love for each other has dwindled and we are basically just friends & roommates with financial ties. There is jealously also as my feelings for this woman is somewhat evident.

I have so much in common with this new friend it’s almost haunting. I have tried to curb my feelings for her but I can’t. I always want to do things with her. I think she knows I am very, very fond of her but I believe her feelings towards me are just basically a close friendship. In emails I always sign.... "Love you" or "I love you". She always returns emails sign "Love,..... " I know she does care for me and is worried about my drinking. I have had a lot of tragedy in my family, lose of my parents and losing two siblings to alcohol, one just a few months ago.

I know I will never, ever be able to be with her and that is the sad part of it. When I am not with her I drink cause I know I will never have a chance to be with like I’d like to be with her. I feel sad when my time with her is over during a day of activities and I wait very patiently for the next time I am able to do things with her. My feelings are so overwhelming that I can’t stop thinking of her. I eagerly await her next email for plans to do something together like walk the dogs or go to a function together. She is a wonderful and caring human being. I am so, so in love with her. I do not know what I can do to stop these overwhelming feelings because they are going to get me into deep trouble with my health and drinking. It’s a wonderful feeling to be so in love and be with her (at least I know I am) but also it is sad because my time with her is limited and shared. I sure didn’t plan this, it just happened because of our common interests being so intense, the friendship just flourished...mine into a deep love for her, hers into a very close friendship with me.

I have a crush on my wife’s friend

Thursday, 03 September 2009

I have an immense crush on one of my wife’s friends. I think about her all the time, obsessively. My wife often tells me that she thinks this girl likes me. I have a feeling not as much as I like her though, because she considers me off limits. If this girl were to ever express a desire to be with me, I don’t think I could turn her down. I’ve known her for years but the crush has only been for the last several months. I think the girl may be keen to it as I probably act strange around her now. I don’t like this situation at all!

In love with husband’s best friend

Sunday, 21 June 2009

I am having an affair with my husband’s best friend and he started the pursuing.... I fell hard for this guy. We tell each other we love each other. But, now he took a vacation with his wife and he was gone for a week and I think he is feeling guilty about our affair. I haven’t heard from him in a few days, and we have been together almost 2 years. I am so upset and sad. I can’t eat or sleep or function. I can’t live without him. I love him.

In love with someone who is not available

Friday, 12 June 2009

I have been sleeping with a very good friend of mine on and off for about 12 years. We have both had relationships with other people during this time. Lately we have started speaking again after about 5 years (during which I had a child with another man). My friend and I recently met up again and had great sex again. Now we talk nearly everyday. He has made some poor decisions where ex-girlfriends are concerned, and he tells me this is the reason he cannot leave the current one, as he just cannot afford to start again. I am so in love with this man, and I think that deep down he feels the same way about me, for whatever reason we just did not get together properly at the time that we met (I am quite a few years younger than he is). I just want my friend. We are both older now, and things are different for both of us, but I think I could die waiting for him to commit to me!! I just have to go through life knowing somebody else is living with the man of my dreams, and it is hard. I have thought about meeting somebody else, but I am really in love with this guy, and nobody else comes close to what I have shared with him! It sucks!!

I want to sleep with my wife’s friend

Tuesday, 24 March 2009

I’m finding myself very tempted to sleep with my wife’s coworker/friend. I know its not politically correct or a nice thing to feel, but the thought of each of us going to behind our significant other’s backs and being together for a few nights of passion is totally hot.

When we are together at social events the sexual tension between us is thick enough to cut with a knife. She’s got a live-in boyfriend that appears inexperienced and has really only been taking her for granted. Anyone cannotice her curiosity in me and her sexual dissatisfaction with him just by looking. I’ve overheard her expressing an attraction to me with one of her friends. She’s made a few dangerous Freudian slips regarding me when socializing with us. This all just makes me more interested. Damn it’s frustrating.

The sex would be spectacular.

I can only pretend I don’t feel this way..

In love with my friend’s ex-girlfriend

Monday, 09 March 2009

I think I am in love with my friend’s ex-girlfriend. And though our love is unconsummated, my friend senses that there is something between us and I know it’s hurting him inside because he still has feelings for her. He’s a great person and I don’t want to hurt him in any way, but I can’t stop thinking about her and what we could have together. I guess we’re not really breaking any rules cuz they’re officially done, but that doesn’t stop the act from being any less hurtful...

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