All Secrets Revealed by Date
Cheated on her while I was drunk
I’ve been dating the most wonderful woman for the past three months, but two nights ago I cheated on her with someone who I had previously been friends with benefits. I was blackout drunk, and I don’t even remember it happening. When I woke up and realized what I’d done I broke down in tears; I’m still completely wracked with guilt. I want to tell her, but I’m not sure if that’s because I think she deserves to know so she can decide whether to keep this going, or if I want to tell her just to assuage my own guilt. I don’t think I’m going to confess. I love her, and I could see us going the distance, but I’m also afraid that the way I feel now will get in the way of our relationship.
Cheated on boyfriend with our best friend
I cheated on my boyfriend with our best friend. It was a one-time thing and we promise to take it to the grave with us. Because telling him will only hurt him and benefit no one. We both have something to lose that we don’t want to. And we don’t have any secret or deep feelings for one another.
Cheated on my boring boyfriend
I am in a committed relationship. I love him so much but he’s so boring. I went over to a friend’s house knowing that he likes me and wants to have sex with me. I wanted some excitement in my life. My fiancé doesn’t shower often which really turn me off about him. I was talking to my friend and one thing led to another. We were having sex, but I couldn’t continue any longer. I told him never again and rushed home to shower. I wanted to make sure all of his smell was gone. I know he’ll leave me if I tell him, but it was only one time. I won’t do it again. I can’t tell him because I don’t wanna hurt him.
Think my girlfriend knows I cheated
I cheated on my girlfriend and have a feeling she knows. But I do not wish to hurt her. I was ok with it for a while, but now guilt overwhelms me because I feel I have messed up something beautiful. I feel it destroyed some intimacy in the relationship. She may or not forgive me. I promise never to do it again. It’s not worth it. I thought it wouldnt affect me but now it does. I truly love my girlfriend.
Slept with someone else in the beginning
So, I have a girlfriend I am with, but it started with a tricky beginning. She wouldn’t define the relationship (although we agreed to be exclusive). I hooked up with someone else that I know, but I felt so guilty whilst "doing the deed" that I stopped abruptly. Too late now. That was a long time ago and not much actually happened and since then the relationship has become a lot more serious. At first, I was not certain this girl would stay with me. She admitted that she kissed someone on a night out and whether that was the truth or not, I don’t want to know. She also said she went home with him but didn’t do anything sexual. I forgot about it for a while, but she asked just in conversation if I ever cheated on her. I feel like it wasn’t cheating because we weren’t technically together, but at the same time I feel so guilty that it’s keeping me up at night. I am absolutely in love with this girl and I can’t tell her because it would break her heart. Just to relieve my own guilt. It’s not worth it. I promised myself I wouldn’t do it again ever and I feel guilty for even thinking about other women. I have been cheated on before and it deeply deeply affected me because I did stay with her. And I did love her. I wish what happened between me and that ex had just stayed her secret (although I later caught her texting him which is why we broke up).
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