All Secrets Revealed by Date
I fall alone
The lines between love and crushing on people has become so blurred for me. Every time I figure out the feelings aren’t reciprocated; my heart breaks a little time even if it wasn’t serious. Now that I am saying this, I am slowly falling for a young man in my accounting course and I’m scared.
First kiss was with a sex worker
I went to erotic massage parlors for two years, and have stopped, but I’m afraid that I will fall into the trap again. I never thought that I would go to those places for sexual relief, and stole money from my parents to fuel that habit. I feel so ashamed of that and that I also had my first kiss with a girl at a massage parlor. I’m afraid that the girl I love now will know about this secret — whether it’s through me telling her or through finding out, and spurn me. I feel so unworthy and like a piece of trash.
Slept with a mutual friend
When my boyfriend and I were broken up I slept with a mutual friend. We both felt guilty and decided to end it. This friend and I no longer communicate. Recently, my ex and I started to date again. The friend is still a part of my ex’s life, though he lives in another state. I told my ex that I had dated and had feelings for other men and that I’d been physical with someone. My ex said he can’t blame me, that he wishes he didn’t know, and doesn’t want to know more. Do I need to tell my ex or is this something I can keep to myself?
Anxious attachment leads me to make poor choices
I have low self-esteem despite being a lawyer, quite pretty and slim. Abandonment issues. But my actions are my own. I fell in love with a friend — deep, passionate and we started a relationship. I left my husband. I adore my boyfriend. He lives 1000 miles away but I trying to move there. I got drunk and slept with a friend who was helping me deal with the divorce and instantly regretted it. Having hit rock bottom, I’m going to suck up the guilt and not burden him with this terrible thing and vow never to do anything like this again. And be the best partner I can be.
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Rage toward the other woman
My husband and my "so called" best friend had an emotional affair. It’s been over for almost three years now, but I still have a hard time dealing with it. My secret? Sometimes I wish she were dead, or that I could kill her. I think about ways of killing her and guaranteeing that I would not be caught and spend my life in prison. I feel like that is the only way to make sure it doesn’t happen again. Of course, I would never really act on any of those feelings, but I do have many thoughts wishing she were dead and that it never happened.