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On the Verge of Cheating Again

Monday, 8 August 2016
Relationship Issues

I love my wife but can’t stop flirting and I had a affair twenty years ago which we have worked through, she loves me and does everything for me she is fantastic but my trouble is I can’t stop looking at other women, my friends daughter runs a business at work and we get on well together she’s twenty years younger than me and she’s tells me she thinks a lot of me. She’s going through a rough patch with her husband at the moment and she tells me everything and I feel things are getting out of hand, although no serious physical contact as taken place I’m racked with guilt that I thought about cheating again like time is passing me by and I won’t get a chance like this again, but it’s breaking my heart that I’ve even thought these things my wife is my soul mate and my best friend we been through so much together and all I want do is mess things up again it’s like I have a self destruct button, when things are going well I just mess it all up.

Gambled Out of College

Monday, 8 August 2016
Made a Mistake

I dropped out in last semester (8th out of 8) due to gambling shit. My school is in different country no one knows but me back home. The grad ceremony is coming up. I surely cannot attend. I don’t know what to tell my Dad. Life is shit but left to me I’m too bold I will be successful. I don’t know how to fix/tell my Dad.

Cheating After Less than a Year of Marriage

Monday, 8 August 2016
Infidelity

I have been married for less than a year. I traveled to another country and I met someone who is crazy about me. At first I rejected him but he could not let go. Then we started our secret romance. However, I feel so bad about all this but I do not know how to stop!!!

Made a mess of my love life

Monday, 11 July 2016
Relationship Issues

I’m a woman in her late 20s now. I have always cheated. But I never took anybody too seriously until I met Brad. Everything was great at first. I really loved him. Things changed about a year in. I had a shit job and it really started to affect me as a person. Brad and I never had sex anymore. I ended up having sex with a friend from work a weekend while he was away. And the weekend or so before then I made out with another male acquaintance. After he got back. It ended the Wednesday. Both of us agreed. I ended up meeting a guy through some friends and dated him immediately. Big mistake. During this break up. Brad had sex with this girl who hung around our group and was known for her discretions/ low self esteem and lack of respect for anybody. A lot of people were hurt. Me included. We worked it out and I felt so much resentment towards him ever since. I cheated on him with my same work friend again and told him. I also fooled around with one of his friends during a drunken, angry night. And told him. I went back to a married friend I used to see. We have sex every 6 months or so. He has no idea. I was talking to a guy from work who I had a huge crush on. But nothing happened. Just a lot of texting. I talk to other men as well. Mostly just picture exchanging and dirty texts. Brad never has sex with me anymore. I’m so frustrated. And maybe that’s why I seek out attention from other men. I needed to get this out. I think I am the only one to blame for my resentment but I don’t know how to tell him.

Heartbroken over my husband’s cheating

Monday, 11 July 2016
Infidelity

I recently found out that the man I have been married to for the last year, and dated 4 years before that, was frequenting single sites and cheated on me twice in the year we have been married. He met both women through the dating sites ... one of the women he had sex with on our anniversary month. All this time I thought my husband had a sexual dysfunction, but he’s been sexting and sending videos of himself masturbating, sending pictures of his penis to other women... all while I have been at work. My trust is forever broken. I don’t know what to do. I love the life we were building together, we bought a house, have a brand new vehicle under both of our names... and while a part of me wants to hand him a divorce on the spot, another part of me wants to see if with a therapist we can perhaps mend our marriage. I don’t understand how the man I love betrayed me in this way. I don’t understand why my attention and my desire for him wasn’t enough. I am seriously heartbroken and I don’t know what I am going to do!

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