All Secrets Revealed by Date

Lost love

Saturday, 14 May 2016
Relationship Issues

I hate that I couldn’t say goodbye to you when I left. I hated that it was awkward between us even though I tried to joke around and make light of the situation we were in. I hate that I had to drive away and think I’ll never hear from you again my friend. I’ve hovered over your name in my phone and sat with a message open only to never hit send. Afraid of what response I might get telling me to go away, or worse. A response that will never come and that’s my biggest fear is to be ignored and undeserving of a reason.

Husband Only Lies

Saturday, 14 May 2016
Relationship Issues

I have been married to a compulsive, pathological liar for 29yrs. I regret I didn’t read the signs. He should be an actor. I trusted and believed him because he lies so well. Tells you what you want to hear with compassion. I need a divorce.

Love my boss

Saturday, 14 May 2016
Forbidden Love

I’m in love with my boss, however, I am married with 2 teenage daughters. She is divorced with grown kids. I always admired her and liked her since I started working at the store. For the first months, it was just a thought of how we got along and how I thought she was attractive. I really fell for her all of a sudden in February, Superbowl Sunday. I was having a rough day at work and she talked to me about it. I felt a connection that I never felt before with anyone. I said to myself, "She understands me". Ever since then, I would find myself always thinking about her, and getting jealous if she was talking to someone else. A couple weeks ago, I accepted a job somewhere else and that’s when the flood of emotions hit me. I was really going to miss her, and did I make the right decision? I think I did because it probably wouldn’t be good to have an affair at work. She said she would miss me, because I do the job very well, but some texts that she sent me last week were very flirty. She texted stuff like how she felt lonely when I wasn’t there, how secure she felt when I was there doing the job. I could take this as strictly professional, I guess, but I don’t. My heart soared after she texted me that. She even initiated texts asking if my family and I were ok after the storm. However, over the last couple days, she doesn’t text me anymore. I think she may have realized she was being too flirty and is backing off. It hurts, my heart, the pain is real. I try to hide it, and I think I’m doing a good job. I just hope after I leave and go to the other job, the pain will subside. I love her so much.

Cheating with my co-worker

Tuesday, 8 March 2016

I have been with my boyfriend for almost 2 years now and I cheated on him with a co-worker, 3 times to be exact. My coworker is also in a relationship of 3 years so we both do not want it to get out. Only he and I know what we’ve done but the guilt is just eating away at me. In private, I cry to myself because I’m hurting myself but around everyone, I’m always smiling. We both agreed that we have the willpower to stop. I’m hoping that I will be able to do it, but there is still that part of me that doesn’t want to stop. I’m stuck in a hole and I don’t know how to get out.

Lied about the father of my child

Tuesday, 8 March 2016
Relationship Issues

I lied about my child’s fatherhood. I had sex with my current husband (B) while I was still with my ex-boyfriend (A). I developed deep feelings for B and decided to leave A. But unfortunately I was already pregnant with A’s baby but only discovered this when I was about three months pregnant but in new relationship with B. I decided to tell B that he is the father. He accepted the pregnancy. This happened 23 years back and the child passed on last year.

Many people know about this and are talking behind my back. I seriously don’t know whether B knows about this or not.

Although my child is no more and I want to confess this to B because my child left a baby behind and I don’t want him (baby) to be deceived that B is his grandfather. I don’t want to hurt B’s feelings. Love him so much but the truth must come out now.

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