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I have given up on my wife

Monday, 5 January 2015

My wife has been having a full blown affair for the last two months. It’s her second affair in six years. We’ve married for 20 years. There is likely more I havendiscovered. I went on a date with an old friend this past weekend. It was so nice to be with someone just for fun. Shopping and dinner and nothing more. Not even a peck on the cheek. She (my date) was a little nervous because I’m still married but I felt great. I have given up on my wife. She will get the divorce she wants soon. Maybe I’ll tell her my one insignificant secret then.

I kissed another guy

Tuesday, 23 December 2014
Made a Mistake

I have a loving fantastic boyfriend who I have dated for 4 years. I have recently had terrible anxiety and depression and after an unsure period in my life I drunkenly kissed a male friend. I regret this from the bottom of my heart and for the first few days the words were bursting out of my mouth to tell him. But then I realised it was out of self hatred and sabotaging and nothing to do with my relationship. I decided to keep quiet and put the incident behind me-trying to forgive & love myself and be a better partner. The guilt is lessening but will always be there in some form as a reminder of how much I love and care for my boyfriend.

I’m in love with my boss

Wednesday, 17 December 2014
Forbidden Love

I’m in love with my boss. If we met under different circumstances, I would have dated him in a heart beat. He is married and has a child which is the reason I would never do anything to hurt him or his family. Therefor, I am distant.

We no longer work directly with each other, so keeping the distance is easy, but the few times we have interacted, I can feel the energy and chemistry between us. I has given me special treatment that I have not seen him give to my co-workers. He has never been inappropriate. He has never sexually-harassed me, which I am thankful for. I would not know what to do.

I feel silly even thinking about this, but I hold a candle for him in my heart even if I can never be with him. My love for him belongs to me and will endure for years to come. My feelings run deep in my heart. If (this is a big if) he ever becomes single and I am single, I hope he comes to me. I feel like a foolish school girl saying this, but it’s the truth. I love him completely and will suffer for it because I can never express it.

Emotional affair of the heart with my boss

Monday, 3 October 2014
Forbidden Love

I have been married for 24 years. My husband has always expected me to be very traditional and domestic. Yet I work long hours and provide the greater portion of the family income and all of the benefits. He has always worked, but his jobs did not provide much, and were without benefits. During our brief time off, he never wanted to do anything together,and his family (mother, father, and sibs) provided most of his social life. Work has been my primary social connection. And I have become very attached to my Boss. He too is married about the same amount of years. We are both introverted type personalities. There was much upheaval in our department, and I basically took sides with him during a difficult transition, I not only gave him my loyalty, but my heart I fear. We have spent so much time together in the past 2 years, and I am his confidant. He is a different person around me than how he interacts with my co-workers, we laugh and enjoy each others company. I think about him all the time, and I know he feels the same. We never discuss our feelings for each other openly as we cant, work policy dictates we would both be fired, I’m sure there are many looking on with suspicion as he spends so much time with me, we sit side by side in meetings, and our body language has to be apparent. There are no emails texts or phone calls other than business, only us talking together, we have hugged, and I have given him rides home on occasion. we are together as much as we can be most days, he comes to see me first thing each morning, and always to say good bye. It is an emotional affair of the heart. He makes me feel alive and appreciated and I make him feel the same.

Close to cheating on my husband

Sunday, 26 October 2014

I have been married for 8 years. For the past 2 years my husband and I have not had sex. He won’t even let me touch him sexually. I began meeting with coworkers for drinks at a bar and met a friend of a friend. The spark was alluring. For 2 months we would flirt: simple things like touching arms when we would touch and hugs. The past 2 weeks we have hung out at parties and have had too much to drink. He kissed me on the lips and called it a friendship kiss because I am married. I want so much more. He makes me feel so giddy and sexy. He has the deepest, bluest eyes that I could get lost in. I don’t know if it will go on much longer. I don’t know if my marriage will last. All I know, is that right now, I would give anything to spend one night in the bedroom with this man!

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