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Letting go of a guy from my past
I’ve been going steady with a guy for about a year and a half now. We broke up because of a chain of events with a guy from my past. We got back together after a lot of hell, and agreed to set things straight. The man from the past was going into the military, I told him good luck, we chatted, and ended up telling each other we loved each other despite the him not fighting for me when he had the chance. I sent a letter asking how he was doing, but I then sent a letter saying that was inappropriate of me and I won’t be contacting him anymore. After that, one last piece of mail went out as a group activity, so I took part in it, keeping it cordial and generic. I feel terribly guilty about everything, though I tried to fix it. I hope that the man from the past won’t get angry, but I’m never reading any mail that I get from him. I know telling my boyfriend will be more harmful than is necessary, and I want things to last as long as we both want them to. I just need to get this off my chest.
Cheated at the start
I am in a happy, committed, and truly loving relationship. But very early on I cheated..
Use sex to feel validated
I am cheated on my alcoholic husband. I was really turned off him for years. But I stayed for the sake of our child. He is okay in bed but he doesn’t last long and always satisfies himself first and quickly than I would like. So I started seeing another man. Then another. Both were wild tigers in bed and made me laugh and engaged in stimulating conversation. Most of the time I felt like a nagging mom to my husband. And he is so self absorbed he would always put himself first. I used these two hot hook ups to escape my reality. The first hot hook up wanted more and I ended it as soon as he fell for me. The second hot hook up has lasted two years and still going on. I did leave my husband but now I miss him. He was always on the couch, someone to talk to about random stuff, occasionally we had dates but his drinking always killed it. Hot hook up number two is always there and is smart, engaging passionate and has a strong drive. I can’t ever admit this to myself but I am addicted to men and sex validating me. I know the right thing to so but I keep feeding my ego.
I’ve been in love with my boss for years and finally its out and we’re a couple... problem: we’re both married! I’ve been married to this wonderful man for 4 years now and I must say I’ve been in love with my boss for 5! I should have been mature enough and listened to my heart, yet I still took the big step. Now after all this time, my boss and I have connected on such a deep emotional level that there is no turning back. I was the one who took the first step and told him how I felt about him and he reciprocated. The love I feel is true love, the love I feel for my husband is platonic. We have a beautiful son and I’ll keep the marriage in tact for his sake.
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Snooping reveals the truth
I checked his phone and know he’s lying.