All Secrets Revealed by Date

Ex-husband, new boyfriend, and unwanted sex

Monday, 15 May 2017
Relationship Issues

My ex had cheated on me and I moved in with my new bf. My ex went back to Oregon, as did I a few months after to see family. We have a daughter together and every time we went to see him on out vacation he would force me into bathrooms and try to kiss me and get laid. I’d push him off over and over but the last night I was there I gave in and we had sex, I cried half way through and made him get off of me because I felt so gross. When I came back I planned to tell my bf but then we found out I was pregnant. Now it’s almost three years later and the guilt is crushing me. I know he will leave if I say anything. I deserve it I guess...

Sexting an ex is coming back to haunt me

Monday, 15 May 2017
Made a Mistake

I was having an inappropriate text conversation with an ex who my boyfriend explicitly asked me not to communicate with. It was meaningless, based in the past, but filled with sexual innuendo. Later that night, my ex’s girlfriend read the text messages between the two of us and threatened to tell my partner "what I’m up to". I never thought anyone would see those exchanges and I feel terrible about the whole thing. Terrible that she had to see that, terrible that he had to explain and terrible that I face losing the person I love most in this world. I’m literally sick to my stomach about the whole thing and I wish I had made better choices that day.

I regret cheating and want to tell my wife

Monday, 3 April 2017
Infidelity

Wish I could undo it. I slept with someone other than my wife. She doesn’t know and I don’t know how I could tell her just for the sake of taking a load off my chest. I also feel I failed morally for taking advantage of the girl.

Talking dirty

Sunday, 12 March 2017
Made a Mistake

I have said many inappropriate things to a married man and I am a married woman myself. I am afraid of two marriages being ruined, but I think what I’m worried most about is what people would think of me if we were exposed. How sad is that? But very much also the pain. I can’t bear the thought of anyone being in pain because of my choices. But I have made the choice... it is over and it will hopefully go with me to my grave.

Student-Teacher

Sunday, 12 March 2017
Forbidden Love

I think I’m in love with my former student and now a friend of mine.

My one regret

Sunday, 12 March 2017
Made a Mistake

Before my husband and I had kids I rekindled with an ex boyfriend. He was like my crush, my secret, and an ex that I regret breaking up with. We saw each other kissed and did some things but did not have sex. It felt so good at the time to be able to talk, rekindle, and have that tingling feeling in my life. I didn’t even think I was cheating. Then one day out of the blue it just all ended. For the best, and the crazy thing was I wasn’t even sad or upset that it ended! Maybe it was all lust, a high, or just a plain crazy thing kinda thing. After that happened I did not come clean to my spouse, but I know for a fact that will not occur ever again. I feel so stupid, a bit used, and such a bad partner. It actually made me realized that I do have the best spouse and what I did was like a thing to get out of my system. Now that I’ve done so, I know not to ever do that again because it’s never going to end well, nor is it good for a relationship. This is the only thing that I regret in my life.

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