All Secrets Revealed by Date
Married to a sociopath
I am married to a pathological liar and sociopath. I knew him for years before we went out. We’ve been married 5 years and I have to get out before I lose my soul. The only truthful thing he’s ever told me is his name. Everything and I mean everything was a lie. How I couldn’t figure that out I’ll never know. They have this penchant for picking people so busy with life you overlook the little things. He will change a story about someone else into him. It’s truly unreal. I find that they have sexual and intimacy problems, like they just can’t fully connect with another human being. Once you figure out what they truly are it feels like their energy is a blanket smothering your light, sucking away your oxygen. Also notice they will literally stare at you when they think you aren’t looking. It’s like they’re trying to figure you out. It is the most god-awful feeling. I wish they could be identified and matched with other pathological liars so they can leave us alone. There is no one in my family or my husband’s that’s not mentally ill. I’m so so tired of dealing with crazy people. They’re so damned believable it takes you forever to realize you’ve been living in a zoo. End rant.
Boyfriend turned on me when confronted with his untruths
It’s not my secret I been keeping its actually my boyfriend’s. Finding a pack of Newport cigarettes in my boyfriend’s jacket, he has never been a smoker. It had blood on the pack of the cigarette with a quarter labeled Chicago! When I questioned him on it; he had the audacity to call me a liar and say that all I do is make up lies and I’m crazy and on drugs! Personally, for months he has been lying to protect his reputation of the "good guy" everyone perceives him to be. What’s scary is the fact that he has no empathy for his behavior and no accountability. He has no remorse of his actions as long as he is getting what he wants… the damage and pain he afflicts on others he could care less about.
Parents see me as squandered resources
I’m afraid that my parents value me as the money they’ve spent on me instead of the life of their child.
Not following the rules when it comes to porn
I’m an elder in a very strict religious organization (think "cult"). I have violated the organizations policies on pornography a number of times.
Misbehaving during a massage
I went to a sketchy massage parlor and the lady tried to jerk me off but I have a fiancée so I opted out and the masseuse said that I could jerk myself off while she finishes the massage. Initially I thought it was fine because the lady didn’t do it, but now I feel bad because I’m not sure if that’s technically cheating or not.
I got in trouble at school because someone found out I had cut my arms and thighs. Everyone knew what I had done, I told my friends that I would never do it again, but I still do. The secret hurts more than my cuts.
Turned on at thought of my wife with someone else
Fantasize about seeing my wife have sex with another man.
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