All Secrets Revealed by Date

Treated me poorly for a decade

Tuesday, 1 May 2018
Relationship Issues

The man I have lived with for 10 years (except for four months last year) has never let his phone out of his sight. He never answers when I call. The only time he did was when he wanted me to look bad at work. To this day he has never responded to a single email I have sent him. He has never made me feel as if he thinks of me in his future. He has never made me feel like a part of his life really. He talks about me like I am a distant acquaintance. Just a roommate and hardly a friend. During the four months I was gone I was with someone who included me in everything he did and his whole family treated me as one of the group. This is something that I greatly need as I have not had a family of my own to speak of ever!!!! I just don’t feel like he even wants me around at this point. In fact, I think this is all a joke. Being in a relationship I should feel wanted, right? I shouldn’t be made to feel like crap.

If you look you’ll find

Tuesday, 1 May 2018
Snooping and Spying

If you go looking for something you will always find it!!!! I looked through my bf’s things when he was gone and low and behold I found a tremendous amount of stuff I couldn’t even comprehend why he had done it. When confronted with my finds I was only shrugged off being made to feel like I should ignore what I discovered. How can I trust someone when I know that he is a compulsive liar? When is too much enough? I am at the end of my rope here and falling faster into a really dark place.

Felt guilty about talking to other guys

Thursday, 5 April 2018
Relationship Issues

I went over to a friend’s house to vent, and had lunch with another for the same reason, while my boyfriend and I were broken up. The guilt was eating away at me even though I didn’t cheat on him and these guys were my friends only, simply for the fact he knows I spoke with them, but not that I was actually with them...

Then I started reading how everyone actually cheated on their partner and figured this secret is stupid and I can keep it to myself, especially because I was a different person back then. Hanging out with friends in a time of need. I grew out of needing someone else to tell me everything was going to be alright.

Gonna leave the past in the past and make my boyfriend happy while we’re alive :)

Hacked boyfriend’s social media

Thursday, 5 April 2018
Snooping and Spying

I have been in a long distance relationship with my boyfriend for two years now, about December 2017 I had doubts about his loyalty, so I hired a social media hacker to help me hack his Instagram account which he gave the password to his account some hours later. Lo and behold, he had been sexting and exchanging nudes with different ladies in his DM’s.

Won’t tell unless asked

Sunday, 18 March 2018
Infidelity

I cheated on the love of my life, while sick and lonely on an academic trip, and I deeply regret it. I chose not to tell my partner, and I broke up with him—thinking that our relationship was not salvageable (we had been having some serious difficulties before I left on the trip). We recently reconciled, but I still feel terrible about this dark secret. I still haven’t told him, and don’t think I will be able to—unless he asks me directly. I loathe myself for all of my flaws, and I think I will always feel insecure in a relationship. I struggle with deep depression, borderline traits, and other health issues, that have been treatment-resistant.

Using a misunderstanding to betray my boyfriend

Sunday, 18 March 2018
Made a Mistake

I made out with someone. I already told my bf but he misunderstood and then I lied.

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