I suspect my husband is cheating on me

I am at risk of getting an STD because. I cannot allow him to get me sick because I have a son that depends on me. This is the only son we have, and we have him together.

I need to know if my husband is cheating on me. He complains about everything. He does not sleep at home. He arrives at 6 am and 7 am, and sleeps on the couch to be unnoticed when he arrives.

He does not dedicate even ten minutes a day to be with our son. I heard him talking to a woman one day when he was in the bathroom. He denied having an affair. He locks his phone. I do not have access to it. I am very sure he is cheating on me.

I would like advice, and I would like to by a small camera to catch him, because he seems to know how to get away after being caught talking to another woman.

Response:

Healthy relationships are built on love, respect and appreciation (see healthy relationships). The entire point of being in a relationship is the value they add to your life.

From your question, it sounds like catching an STI is the least of your problems. Unhealthy relationships can cause a wide range of serious issues including anxiety, depression, problems at work and health related issues.

Evaluating your relationship might be a wiser use of your time than trying to build a case against him cheating on you (see relationship worth saving).

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