Past Comments – My boyfriend had sexual exchanges with an ex
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written by BH, 11 April, 2011
I was in the same boat as you. My boyfriend did everything in the world to make it right, but 10 months later he "cheated" again. It has been 6 months since then, and I moved out... but we are still caught up on one another
and are trying to figure out if this is something we should even try. I hope your situation doesn’t end up the way mine did. Just remember that you have to live for yourself and not let fear rule your life.
written by hockeymom71, 07 May, 2011
Hi,
I am in a very similar situation. My partner has been having email sex with some girl that he used to work with. I found out on Valentine’s day when I intercepted a Valentine’s email to him – a pic of her breasts. The emails have been going on for almost 2 years of our 5 year relationship, albeit sporadically, only 4 or 5 he claims. He claims they were just sex stories, like what you read in Penthouse and that it was just a game. I still find it a devastating betrayal of our relationship. We live 3000 miles apart, so I understand that he has sexual needs...but he could have had email sex with me!!! (the woman he was emailing also lives across the country from him)
Same as your guy, he is doing everything possible to save our relationship, including giving me passwords to everything and telling me everything, but I am terrified to trust him again.
It would be easier for him to leave me and find someone that lives in his city that doesn’t have 3 children etc....so I have to keep positive and believe him that he was simply satisfying his primal need for sex and would never have physically cheated.
I have to say that if it was physical I would have to leave. I can hardly handle this.
You aren’t alone, I am sure there are millions of us out here dealing with cyber cheating.
I am in a very similar situation. My partner has been having email sex with some girl that he used to work with. I found out on Valentine’s day when I intercepted a Valentine’s email to him – a pic of her breasts. The emails have been going on for almost 2 years of our 5 year relationship, albeit sporadically, only 4 or 5 he claims. He claims they were just sex stories, like what you read in Penthouse and that it was just a game. I still find it a devastating betrayal of our relationship. We live 3000 miles apart, so I understand that he has sexual needs...but he could have had email sex with me!!! (the woman he was emailing also lives across the country from him)
Same as your guy, he is doing everything possible to save our relationship, including giving me passwords to everything and telling me everything, but I am terrified to trust him again.
It would be easier for him to leave me and find someone that lives in his city that doesn’t have 3 children etc....so I have to keep positive and believe him that he was simply satisfying his primal need for sex and would never have physically cheated.
I have to say that if it was physical I would have to leave. I can hardly handle this.
You aren’t alone, I am sure there are millions of us out here dealing with cyber cheating.
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