In a survey of men, who had been cheated on, the vast majority said they still loved their wives and wanted to save their marriage.
Our own survey results show that while women cheat because of problems in their relationships, the majority of female cheaters did not want their relationships to end (see, cheating survey results – data takes a while to load).
Research consistently shows that the best way to deal with problems in a relationship is to keep boredom at bay (see, boredom kills).
Perhaps dealing with problems before they lead to cheating would be wise, given that neither men nor women want a relationship to end, despite the pain that cheating causes.
