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On the verge of cheating due to boredom |
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Category: Relationship Issues
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Tuesday, 03 June 2008 |
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I’m in a very healthy loving relationship where even some people envy it. We get along great. But being sexually deprived by the lack of chemistry in the bedroom has caused my mind to wander. It has resulted to heavy flirting with someone. I wasn’t looking for it but it’s hard to turn down sexual tension that is absent in my current relationship. I have cuddled with this person at night in their bed without having sex. I recently went to a party where this person would be. We conducted our selves well around mutual friends - none are the wiser. Just light friendly flirting. But alone it’s heavy and over whelming desire. We are both in long term relationships but we both lack the sexual activity from our partners that we draw out our frustration with each other. I’m trying hard not to cheat. We haven't even kissed. But we have fondled a bit. I try to use me pent up sexual tension with my boyfriend but it seems to fall flat cause he too tired or some other excuse. VERY FUSTRATING! It’s hard not to fall under the sin of lust. I try to remind myself that this is temporary and that getting caught or starting an affair is be more harmful than having sex with someone I don’t love. And it’s not like my bf doesn’t know that we need to spice up our bedroom life. He knows because I tell him he needs to be more willing. I am trying to be patient. I have never spoken of this with anyone. |
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I know my husband loves his boss |
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Category: Relationship Issues
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Friday, 30 May 2008 |
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I know that my husband is in love with someone else. He is in love with his boss. It is as clear as can be. I don't have the courage to confront him about it. The consequence of him acknowledging the truth would be the end of our relationship. So, I pretend that nothing is wrong, but I wonder how long I can live this lie until the whole thing comes crashing down on me. Waiting for the shoe to drop, wondering how I will cope when it happens. |
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Sleeping with my friend's wife |
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Category: Forbidden Love
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Wednesday, 28 May 2008 |
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I am having lesbian sex with my good friend/coworker's wife. Secretly I hope she leaves him after a few years of us seeing each other. I feel dishonorable and guilty every time I am around him. I take a small bit of relief because she persuaded me and initiated the contact. I know that if our relationship progresses she probably won't ever have the courage to leave him and if he ever found out it would cause me problems at work. But I secretly would trade my friendship with him to have a relationship with her. But I feel excited by the secrecy and getting away with our secret encounters. |
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I think my boyfriend is gay |
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Category: Relationship Issues
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Wednesday, 28 May 2008 |
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I think my boyfriend just might be or have been gay. There has been this guy calling his cell phone for the last month living messages and calling back and back. So I called and talked to the guy and he tells me everything about my boyfriend. But my boyfriend clams he doesn’t know who this is. I don't know what to do. My boyfriend has lied to me before a few times and I am just clueless, shocked, and hurt about what to do this time around. |
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Hiding my past life of lies from my boyfriend |
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Category: Lie A Lot
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Wednesday, 21 May 2008 |
I never told my boyfriend (of one year) a lot of the awful things I've done in my past. I am such a different person now, but I used to lie all the time. He doesn't know that. He doesn't know that lying was like second nature to me.
He also doesn't know that I used to hurt myself.
It's just that these things seem like they came from some other person. I've distanced myself so much from it.
I just don't know if it's wrong of me not to tell him about my past or keep it to myself. I feel so guilty for the things I've done. And I just wonder if maybe it would be better to start over with someone that knew everything about me and who I used to be. But I just love him so much. I just wish I had been straightforward with him from the beginning. |
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