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Uncertain about whether to leave my husband |
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Category: Relationship Issues
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Monday, 23 June 2008 |
I told my spouse about three months ago that I was not happy with myself or the relationship and that I wanted a divorce (those words came later) after I reassured him that this was not because of him but me. And that I had fallen out of love with him, but I still loved him because of what we had together (2yo daughter). He said a few hurtful things and now our situation is worse. Now, I am in a situation and I want to actually try and work on the relationship with him, but I have someone else that I have been seeing and I am torn because I don't want to hurt his feelings because he has gone through this whole situation personally with his ex spouse. I am torn every day as to what to do and I am afraid if I try to work it out with my husband and it doesn't work then I will have sacrificed a potentially great relationship and be left with nothing.
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I am obsessed with snooping on my boyfriend |
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Category: Snooping and Spying
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Wednesday, 18 June 2008 |
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My boyfriend has a female co-worker friend that he spends time with outside of work. They have worked together for 3 yrs. I was honest an told him it made me a little jealous and that I hoped he would be more open about their relationship and the time they were spending together. Then I found out that a planned vacation with co-workers was only with that one female friend. He lied to me about it, and then said it was because he knew I was jealous and didn't want to make me upset. I don't know if anything happened... he doesn't seem like the type to cheat. After that, I started snooping... I found text messages where they said they love each other. I confronted him. And the issue became me snooping and not the inappropriate content on the messages. He claims they love each other only as best friends. I promised not to snoop anymore... but I just don't trust him. Since then, I read his emails, msn conversations and facebook messages. I try to check his text messages, but since he knows I checked before he always deletes them. Even though I haven't found anything incriminating and I really believe that he didn't cheat on me, I still can't stop snooping. I am obsessed and I don't know what to do. |
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I am sleeping with a married man |
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Category: Infidelity
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Wednesday, 11 June 2008 |
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I am sleeping with a married man; he used an alias, but I know his real name. I suspect he knows I know his real name, but he has never confessed to using an alias. And I will never ask outright because I understand why he did it. |
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I want to cheat on my husband |
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Category: Infidelity
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Sunday, 08 June 2008 |
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I want to cheat on my husband. Only once. Just to see how it feels. |
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I have been using a nanny cam to spy on my husband |
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Category: Snooping and Spying
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Thursday, 05 June 2008 |
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I have been carrying this on my heart for 9 months and haven’t told anyone. Last July my husband started staying up later than I and I would get up around midnight to get a drink or something and he would be in the living room on his laptop computer, when I would walk in he would close it so I got suspicious that he was on a porn website or something like that. Well Sept. 15th he thought I went to bed but I decided to stand outside the window and watch what he was doing on his laptop. He went into a "secure" file and what I saw made my heart sick. He had nude photos of himself and he had pictures of (fully clothed) people that he knew way back in high school and he would put his picture close to them. Weird yes!! He was clearly excited about this. By the way he is 58 years old. When he went to bed I confronted him about this and he felt really bad about it and said he was sorry. I forgave him but I can’t forget. I eventually did forget about it and 6 months later in March of this year my computer broke down so he brought his laptop home from work and let me use it. I play lots of games on there so I downloaded a game and then deleted it so not to mess up his computer then I went into the Recycle Bin and there was a naked picture of my husband that he took the night before and then I went into photoshop and found young girls in bikinis that he likes looking at. I was just frozen because he told me he wouldn’t do that anymore. I waited until Friday after we got home from work, he was going to print out our taxes and when he punched print, it printed out his nude picture and he grabs it real quick and said that’s an old picture. I told him no that I found it and it was dated on the 31st of Aug - a night that I went to bed early. So he lied to me about that. He said once again that he was sorry and I do believe him but once again my heart hurts because I used to trust him so much and now I've lost that trust. I think about that all the time. That’s not the part that I'm hurt over. I still don’t trust him and so I bought hidden nanny cams so that when I do go to bed I can watch to make sure he's not doing that. Well he talks to his brothers wife because his brother has been gone off and on and I don’t mind that but what he does is talks to her about his job (He's a firefighter and Paramedic) and as he is talking to her he is touching himself and is excited about this and I don’t think its her. I really don’t know but this bothers me so bad. I don’t know whether to talk to him or what. It is ruining me! I cry all the time thinking that maybe he wants me to look like her or that he finds her more attractive. I don’t know and I can’t tell anyone. |
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