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Snooping is ruining my marriage |
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Category: Snooping and Spying
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Friday, 09 May 2008 |
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I started snooping on my spouse's cell phone statements and credit card statements when I could catch them before he got them and hid them. I would open the envelope on the side, not the top, and then glue it back together after I looked at it. It has been more hurtful than helpful, but I feel like I need information to make an informed decision about whether or not to leave this marriage. How much am I supposed to endure? When he says he is going to work one day and then a month later I see that he called a stranger's phone number and had a credit card charge at a restaurant on that very day, what am I supposed to do? I keep hoping that the next statement will be "clean" - that I can stop feeling like the fool I obviously am. This spying has become an obsession and it's very unhealthy for me. I guess I should just own up to it and tell him I've got to leave this marriage because I'm turning into someone I despise. It's a twisted, weird, and sick game. The hardest part is trying to figure out how much of this situation evolved from my part. I'm obviously very fearful of conflict, because I avoid confronting him with my findings (I'm also ashamed of myself and don't want to admit that I have sneaked into his mail, although as a married couple I think mail should be open to either one of us.) I've confronted him a couple of times and he went on the offensive and hurt my feelings even worse. I feel like I'm being torn apart into such tiny pieces that I'm virtually dissolved into nothingness. |
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I lack trust in my boyfriend and I'm snooping |
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Category: Snooping and Spying
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Monday, 05 May 2008 |
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I don't trust my boyfriend of nearly three years. This may be because we went out before, years ago and it ended badly. We got back together, and a year into it, I found out he lied about having sex with a friend. Now I'm obsessed with catching him. I just found out he bought porn and lied about it. Now I'm just confused and scared, and feel alone. |
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I regret cheating on my husband |
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Category: Infidelity
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Tuesday, 29 April 2008 |
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To my husband: I did sleep with him. I am so sorry. I only loved you at the time. I don't know what I was thinking. Please forgive me. |
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Fooled around on my girlfriend |
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Category: Made a Mistake
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Tuesday, 29 April 2008 |
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Last night I was involved with another couple in sexual play but not actual intercourse. It was seriously only for about 2 minutes and the result of drunk rambling. I have a girlfriend and feel terrible for what I have done. I would never cheat on her again because I love her too much and I never want to feel like this again. I thought I might feel better writing this down as I'm never going to tell her what happened. Our relationship would not handle it and I need to learn to live with my mistakes. Thanks for listening. |
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I have been having a secret relationship |
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Category: Forbidden Love
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Tuesday, 22 April 2008 |
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I am a 25 year old female who has been having a secret relationship with one of my closest friends who just happens to also be a girl. We are so completly compatible the only problem is that she has a live in girlfriend. This girlfriend has no education, no job and therefore is content playing happy homemaker. I on the other hand am very independent, driven and dedicated to my career as an EMT. I live with guilt everyday because there are children involved. My lover has an eight month old son and has also adopted her little brother who is five years old. These children or cared for primarily by this other girl. As for me I don't have any kids of my own yet, but I am raising my brother's two daughters while he is in prison. I am very torn by the love and emotional connection that her and I have developed over the past 3 years and the moral dilemma that I am faced with. The overwhelming feeling of being second best is starting to become more than I can handle. For some reason I can't let go. |
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