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Cheating on my boyfriend to keep things even |
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Thursday, 14 August 2008 |
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I was faithful to my boyfriend of 4 years for the first 2 and half years and then I discovered he cheated on me while I was having a miscarriage with his first child. He went away to see her (his other woman) and left me to fend for myself on mother’s day weekend while going through the miscarriage. I forgave him and took him back and he was still contacting her when he said he wouldn't. I believe he was still sleeping with her but I couldn't prove it so I thought I was being paranoid... but then I GOT EVEN! I hooked up with a very good friend of mine who showed me everything that I was missing. It felt GOOD! He took me out to a really expensive restaurant, we went to his hotel and cuddled to a movie and fell asleep. Then WE DID the DEED. It was not planned that way but it happened and as adults we BOTH wanted it. To this day we remain friends. I am still in a relationship with my boyfriend and we now have a baby girl. I then found out he cheated on me with “her” when I was 8 months pregnant... bottom line he makes the rules for the game... I'm playing by HIS rules. We love each other VERY MUCH... I believe he is just a spontaneous cheater... I don't think he has real feelings for “her” he just has to take the opportunity if it arises. He ALWAYS comes home to me, even before we had the baby. Yeah he spent 5 days with her but, eventually he CAME HOME to me. I left him when I found out he cheated and HE CAME after me NOT HER. Bottom line is... I think he may still be in contact with her... maybe not having sex with her but she's still around... I can feel it. SO I KEEP MY OPTIONS OPEN TOO.
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