I secretly tried to get even.
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I wish harm upon my husband |
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Wednesday, 16 September 2009 |
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I am a wife who is married to a man in love with himself... he spends hours on the computer masturbating for strange women and even men. He has already made contact to play with some of these people. I hate him for that. That is putting me at risk. I married to be married... he married to have a woman do the chores he did not want to do so that he had more time to play. Many days I thought of ways for God to take him out. My secret is that I love him only as a distant friend... not as a husband anymore.
I have learned not to confront him with true feelings anymore because most things out of his mouth are a lie. He plays women all the time.. He had a conversation going with this one young gal for weeks... I confronted him even in a gentle way and just asked who she was.... he said that she had only said hi to him but that he did not chat with her... right. I had found numerous chats where he would ask her what she wanted to play next... right... in his chats he was also saying how he thought she probably had a very nice figure. I do not feel close to him anymore but just go through the motions until I can get on my feet financially.
My secret is that I want him to perish. I will not touch a hair on his head but I will just agree for him to take on as many lovers as he wishes then him to die from it. I am willingly handing him over to destruction because I am no longer accepting the lies he says. I dont even love him enough anymore to snatch him from the fire. I think some belong in the fire quite frankly. Some say... go to a therapist... I say... if he will continually lie to his wife... he is not going to tell the truth to a therapist. Get real folks. I am just tired of his lies and fake self... not the man I married anymore. Of if he is, he sure keeps some whopper secrets from me. I fear and love God enough to do no physical harm to him... but who is to say one of his mistresses will not.... |
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I will get even for my husband's cheating |
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Wednesday, 13 May 2009 |
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I recently found out my husband of 4 yrs, had sex with another women while I was pregnant with health issues. I was angry at first, but now I secretly make him believe that we're going to be ok, because I want to cheat on him. Everytime I go out I flirt so bad. It feels great even though I am wrong. But, an eye for an eye just keeps ringing in my head. |
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I cheated on him in order to get even |
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Saturday, 09 May 2009 |
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I messed around with another guy and I am engaged. I did it because he cheated on me for a good three months, taking showers, kissing, messing around with another girl and even dumping me for a while to be with her. And guess what? I don't feel that bad. I liked it a lot. And it's helped me get over his dumbass decisions. |
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Trying to turn the tables on my cheating boyfriend |
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Tuesday, 03 March 2009 |
After my "gut" talking to me for months, I recently discovered my boyfriend was cheating on me with a woman who lives far from our hometown. I learned of their affair via snooping his cell phone and some letters on his desk. I sent them both anonymous text messages. I told her about me and him. I told him had been busted and can't hide the truth from his girlfriend for long. Then, just to let him sweat, I played dumb...
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Cheating on my boyfriend to keep things even |
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Thursday, 14 August 2008 |
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I was faithful to my boyfriend of 4 years for the first 2 and half years and then I discovered he cheated on me while I was having a miscarriage with his first child. He went away to see her (his other woman) and left me to fend for myself on mother’s day weekend while going through the miscarriage. I forgave him and took him back and he was still contacting her when he said he wouldn't. I believe he was still sleeping with her but I couldn't prove it so I thought I was being paranoid... but then I GOT EVEN! I hooked up with a very good friend of mine who showed me everything that I was missing. It felt GOOD! He took me out to a really expensive restaurant, we went to his hotel and cuddled to a movie and fell asleep. Then WE DID the DEED. It was not planned that way but it happened and as adults we BOTH wanted it. To this day we remain friends. I am still in a relationship with my boyfriend and we now have a baby girl. I then found out he cheated on me with “her” when I was 8 months pregnant... bottom line he makes the rules for the game... I'm playing by HIS rules. We love each other VERY MUCH... I believe he is just a spontaneous cheater... I don't think he has real feelings for “her” he just has to take the opportunity if it arises. He ALWAYS comes home to me, even before we had the baby. Yeah he spent 5 days with her but, eventually he CAME HOME to me. I left him when I found out he cheated and HE CAME after me NOT HER. Bottom line is... I think he may still be in contact with her... maybe not having sex with her but she's still around... I can feel it. SO I KEEP MY OPTIONS OPEN TOO. |
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I cheated because he was overly jealous |
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Monday, 31 March 2008 |
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I am with a man who I don't want to spend the rest of my life with. And I have cheated on him. In irony, I cheated because of his fear of me being unfaithful. His constant suspicion and endless jealousy pushed me away. My feelings of love slowly turned into hatred. |
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I cheated in order to even the score |
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Saturday, 10 November 2007 |
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After my boyfriend cheated on me with a very close friend and co-worker, I swore to myself that I would never do the same to him. That was over 2 years ago. Well, a few months ago I slept with a guy I work with. I did it twice. We still work with each other, and he and my boyfriend see each other on a regular basis. I'm not scared that he will tell him, I’m scared that whoever he has told will tell him... (small town). And after the fact, I found out this guy I work with is a complete jerk. I feel like what I did isn't as bad as what my boyfriend did. It is more of an "eye for an eye" given that my boyfriend started it all by cheating on me. |
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I contacted the other woman pretending to be my husband |
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Saturday, 20 October 2007 |
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I discovered my husband had an affair with a woman and I found her e-mail address. He said he had left her, but wanted to make sure it was not a lie. I started e-mailing her by using a fake e-mail account I created in my husband’s name – using one of his business accounts. As soon as I contacted her pretending to be my husband, she started telling him (me) how much she was dreaming about him and how much she was thinking about him and how she loved him. Then I started responding nicely but distant for awhile, as my husband had told me he had done, until I realized that my husband was not in fact communicating with her anymore. I finally dropped her without ever letting her know it was me. She still writes to him from time-to-time with the hope that he will go back to her. She is so desperate and now I feel somewhat guilty and so sorry for her. But, I can’t ever tell anyone what I have done. |
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I cheated on my girlfriend out of revenge |
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Wednesday, 10 October 2007 |
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I cheated on my girlfriend to relive my stress because I know for a fact that she’s going to cheat on me with someone she works with. I don’t think she’s physically cheated yet, but she will. I know because I go through her cell phone and find messages about how they feel about each other and when they can spend time together. Yeah, I know reading her text messages destroyed my world. But now I can’t wait till she finds out I’ve already cheated on her. Fair is fair. |
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Friday, 26 May 2006 |
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I tried to get back at my boyfriend and had sex with 3 other guys behind his back. I used condoms except with one guy. When I found out I was pregnant I told my boyfriend and the other guy that it was the other guy's baby. I had her and she is my boyfriend's but I still have the other guy thinking she is his because I don't want to hurt him or his family. Eight months have went by and they still think she is his because they share some of the same features. I am so ashamed and afraid that my boyfriend will one day find out. |
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