Comments for Discomfort with Intimacy at http://www.truthaboutdeception.com , comment 1 to 3 out of 3 comments http://www.truthaboutdeception.com Thu, 20 Nov 2008 04:55:47 +0100 FeedCreator 1.7.2 http://www.truthaboutdeception.com/ask_an_expert/relationship_problems/discomfort_with_intimacy.html#comment-951 Sorry to hear about that. It may be too little, too late. I have been going through somewhat a similar situation with my boyfriend of 9 years. Over the past 7 years, he has slowly become more distant and less affectionate. Sex is at a minimum and there is no spark left in me anymore. I have tried to talk w/him and he says he had issues about touch w/ ex wife refusing him . But that was 12 years ago! Though I have never refused him, this is a huge problem. Everyday I want to leave and find affectionate, caring love. I am scared to leave though. If you want to REALLY make this work... YOU have to let go of your past! and work on your present!! It is obvious that your HUSBAND has TRIED. THAT is worth EVERYTHING! PUT DOWN YOUR GUARD AND GO AFTER HIM... WITH ALL YOUR HEART. IT WON'T BE EASY, but if you love him it is worth the effort. BEST of LUCK! - Lynndie Wed, 26 Sep 2007 13:04:50 +0100 http://www.truthaboutdeception.com/ask_an_expert/relationship_problems/discomfort_with_intimacy.html#comment-933 I know how you feel, I have endured 6 years of a relationship where my husband has actually told me that he never felt sparks for me. I gave him permission to lie to me just to ease the pain of what he said, big mistake, now I never believe anything he says. the list goes on and on. I've tried to be supportive of him but he makes it very difficult to even survive anymore. - JackandJill Sat, 08 Sep 2007 20:05:52 +0100 http://www.truthaboutdeception.com/ask_an_expert/relationship_problems/discomfort_with_intimacy.html#comment-861 Here is the other side. Although I have lost a lot of trust in my wife, I would forever forgive her if she had your desire. Hopefully you will be able to read my questions from a husband's perspective from a wife that has ended intimacy, but is not willing to try and fix the marriage. I will gladly share my story with you in another way if you want. - Don Booth Fri, 20 Jul 2007 11:26:28 +0100