Comments for Husband Never Apologized at http://www.truthaboutdeception.com , comment 1 to 4 out of 4 comments http://www.truthaboutdeception.com Thu, 20 Nov 2008 04:58:52 +0100 FeedCreator 1.7.2 http://www.truthaboutdeception.com/ask_an_expert/relationship_problems/husband_never_apologized.html#comment-1821 My live-in ex-boyfriend for 4 years cheated on me by having sex with his new office mate. Just a month after I discovered it, it was too late already because his other girl was already pregnant. I confronted him and asked for his explanation.. but instead of apologizing, he told me to just break up with him so he can go on with his life. Few months after, I heard from his sister that he was threatened by the father of the girl who happened to be an ex-militar, to marry his daughter asap and if not, he will be shot. Out of fear, he went to me,asked for my forgiveness, and begged me to marry him instead. I know that he just wanted to escape from that situation but what can I do...marry him & be miserable for the rest of my life?! If I will just think of his situation and help him solve his problem by marrying him... then how about me? Did he think of me? I don't think so! To end the story, I didn't marry him.. so he was forced married to that girl. Few months after, their beautiful baby was born but instead of being happy, he felt like he's miserable. He was never happy... i know because he's still coming back to me. Now, I've already moved on.. I have my own family already and I am so happy with my husband. - bluewitch Fri, 14 Nov 2008 02:33:26 +0100 http://www.truthaboutdeception.com/ask_an_expert/relationship_problems/husband_never_apologized.html#comment-1136 My ex-husband also cheated on me, while I thought we were very happy. We have four children and I found out he was cheating on me (with more than one woman) while I was pregnant with our forth child. He didn't seem to care how much he was hurting me or the children. It was almost as if he was shopping for his next wife (one with a job, house, new car for him and anything else he would need), out of state away from the responsibility of his children. Now he's getting married (I'm engaged too) and I hate that he's happy. I honestly wish I felt differently, but I want him to pay. I'm not unhappy, I just really want him to be. *sigh* I need to move past this. - sweetme Mon, 28 Jan 2008 22:35:20 +0100 http://www.truthaboutdeception.com/ask_an_expert/relationship_problems/husband_never_apologized.html#comment-1057 I also feel hurt that this guy I dated for 3 years and had baby with never shows any remorse for deceiving me. He was cheating, lying, and selfish. He turned everything on me and now wants to act like he never did anything. He ignores my feelings and pain by denying he ever did anything wrong. After I helped him he has just so easily moved on with his double life and women. I hate to see him every time he picks up our newborn. I hate that I have a baby with him. - theladytee Sun, 16 Dec 2007 18:23:34 +0100 http://www.truthaboutdeception.com/ask_an_expert/relationship_problems/husband_never_apologized.html#comment-996 My live-in boyfriend cheated on me for over a year by talking to a woman who met while playing World of Warcraft. He moved out a month before his coworker got married, and the day of the wedding, I found his website with a picture of a girl on it. Long story short, she was his new flame. For over a year, they talked, gamed, and IMed each at work. He sent me an instant message, apologizing and saying he missed me. Quite honestly, an apology will not change anything because it will seem sorry. Think about it, when someone cheats, they know what they're doing is wrong. An apology is basically what you want to hear; it won't make anything better, believe me. In fact, when he apologized, I thought, "sorry for what?" Sorry for deceiving me, sorry for having sex with her, yadda, yadda, yadda. Do what I did. Go to a therapist and talk it out. - BozemanAngel Wed, 24 Oct 2007 20:26:29 +0100