Comments for Jealous Girlfirend Friend at http://www.truthaboutdeception.com , comment 1 to 6 out of 6 comments http://www.truthaboutdeception.com Thu, 20 Nov 2008 04:22:41 +0100 FeedCreator 1.7.2 http://www.truthaboutdeception.com/ask_an_expert/dealing_with_suspicion/jealous_girlfirend_friend.html#comment-1148 My situation is similar. The problem I'm having is the influence she is getting from her male friend. He is younger and just out of college. She can relate with him based on her own past experiences. She now has the desire to go out and regain her college youth. I'm not sure if she realizes this but it really has baring on how she responds to me, almost like I'm to old for her and I'm not meeting her needs. I have let her have the freedom but am very anxious about the health of our relationship. I have advised her that this is a recipe for disaster by exposing herself to this type of lifestyle especially when she travels for work. She doesn't connect with me or seem to give the respect I deserve. She denies that there is any issue at all and I'm not sure how much more to push the possible issue with her denial. - mkk Tue, 05 Feb 2008 14:41:18 +0100 http://www.truthaboutdeception.com/ask_an_expert/dealing_with_suspicion/jealous_girlfirend_friend.html#comment-703 I'm currently experiencing the same situation. My wife became friends with a co-worker whom she developed a very close relationship with about a year ago. Normally I wouldn't mind, however, this guy is the type of person who likes to joke around about sexual situations and for some reason he's always hugging or physically touching my wife. I talked to my wife about this and told me that he didn't bother her or that she didn't feel uncomfortable with this guy. She insists that they are just friends and nothing more. However, knowing that I was uncomfortable with him, she backed away from their friendship and started to keep to herself around him. Although, I was happy because she did this, I can tell that she is not happy with the whole situation. Now, I feel like I may have over-reacted. - Trying Wed, 11 Apr 2007 14:21:43 +0100 http://www.truthaboutdeception.com/ask_an_expert/dealing_with_suspicion/jealous_girlfirend_friend.html#comment-492 Get rid of her if you don't like her traits. There are a ton of women out there... more than half of which are probably willing to treat you with more respect. I mean.. come on. A "Deep relationship" my muscular buttox... If the relationship is right there is no cause for her to go elsewhere for that emotional support she's looking for. - Scallawag Wed, 24 Jan 2007 12:08:53 +0100 http://www.truthaboutdeception.com/ask_an_expert/dealing_with_suspicion/jealous_girlfirend_friend.html#comment-318 I know -- that is a drag -- I feel that their should be boundaries of respect for a guy. How can we ever really know what is normal or something that we should be more firm about. If my GF talked to me about back rubs and that type of thing it would bother me. Maybe she is doing it and I just don't know... that might be good or bad. Tough situation. I know this is bothering a lot more guys out there -- and there is not a a lot of articles that deal with this topic. It is usually the guy having other BG's -- but today it is point the other way. - Bill Rockstone Fri, 01 Dec 2006 13:06:48 +0100 http://www.truthaboutdeception.com/ask_an_expert/dealing_with_suspicion/jealous_girlfirend_friend.html#comment-316 Well my girlfriend has a lot of guy friends and it sorta bothers me when she tells me what they do when they hang out like how she lays in there laps and they rub her head or give her back rubs and stuff. I try not to let it bother me but it seems like she says this stuff to make me mad or something - she knows it bothers me but she still does it. She told me that one day she was going to go see her friend at work and bring him lunch and wait till he gets outta work and then they were going to go shopping and hang out. I tried not to let her know that it bothered me but I'm sure she noticed I don't know what to do. i know have a problem and I want some advice so i can try to solve my problem. - JWL Thu, 30 Nov 2006 20:08:40 +0100 http://www.truthaboutdeception.com/ask_an_expert/dealing_with_suspicion/jealous_girlfirend_friend.html#comment-315 Thank you for the advice. I will try and let it be and get to know him... but really how far is too far? When should it stop... movies, dinner, dancing? - Bill Rockstone Thu, 30 Nov 2006 17:32:49 +0100