Comments for Boyfriend Inappropriate Picture at http://www.truthaboutdeception.com , comment 1 to 2 out of 2 comments http://www.truthaboutdeception.com Thu, 20 Nov 2008 04:31:52 +0100 FeedCreator 1.7.2 http://www.truthaboutdeception.com/ask_an_expert/snooping/boyfriend_inappropriate_picture.html#comment-1011 Snoop for security but don't get caught and don't ever let on otherwise you will break the trust. - Kaia Wed, 31 Oct 2007 05:23:08 +0100 http://www.truthaboutdeception.com/ask_an_expert/snooping/boyfriend_inappropriate_picture.html#comment-653 I too found a picture (actually 3 of them) fully nude pictures that my bf (ex) had received over instant messenger. I confronted him after holding it in for 4 weeks. His explanation was that the girl wanted to be in the same profession as him. I told him the nature of their conversation should never have been anything that would warrant her sending him pictures. He said she was talking about how happy she was in her relationship and how her bf made her so happy and how he took pictures of her. So why was she sending another guy these pictures??? Well I ended up leaving in tears and when I got home I demanded he give me his password so I could at least try to confirm. At first he wouldn't give it to me and was very upset that I was going to end our relationship over something like this. Anyway, finally got his password and what did I find?? Over 200 girls on his contact list and the one girl I decided to chat with because she had the same name as me had no idea he had a girlfriend and after begging and pleading her to tell me what she said 'was not her place to tell' she had been sleeping with him for the past 2 years. So there is ALWAYS more to the story and if you dig deeper you will find the proof you need although him cheating on me with a different girl than who he received the pictures from NEVER crossed my mind. Guys will deny deny deny to the day they die until you have solid proof that they can no longer hide from. Even then they will make excuses. If you are snooping, you have some intuitions about him. TRUST them, they happen for a reason. If you were walking down the street and felt like you were being followed and your safety was a concern you would listen. - Guest Wed, 14 Mar 2007 19:58:05 +0100