Comments for Husband Midlife Crisis at http://www.truthaboutdeception.com , comment 1 to 2 out of 2 comments http://www.truthaboutdeception.com Thu, 20 Nov 2008 04:36:05 +0100 FeedCreator 1.7.2 http://www.truthaboutdeception.com/ask_an_expert/infidelity/husband_midlife_crisis.html#comment-728 I knew my marriage needed repair... But I had to understand what went wrong… letting my husband go and getting help for myself.. I would not call him or sleep with him but when he did call I would keep the conversations short but pleasant. It took a lot of determination on my part to be strong for my family and it was a painful journey but a growing rewarding one. My husband and I will be married 40 years and have a lot more love and respect for each other. We both were very immature and sometimes it takes a crisis to help people grow up and appreciate each other. - Been There!!! Mon, 23 Apr 2007 15:35:19 +0100 http://www.truthaboutdeception.com/ask_an_expert/infidelity/husband_midlife_crisis.html#comment-621 First of all we are presently rebuilding our home and making it our dream house and we are living with my parents. He has been working more overtime lately. He is literally never home for more than 3 to 4 hours at a time. He works the night shift and is even working his nights off, days too. He tells me he has to work to be able to continue paying the bills of the reconstruction which I know is expensive, but he just told me after a long heart felt conversation that he doesn't think marriage is for him. I told him I felt him distant and different and he said he doesn't know what to do. He said he loves me and lets just see what happens, but he's not being very responsive or attentive to my needs. We are intimate when he comes home and at times he just seems overwhelmed with the house. But he says he's not sure if he was made to be married. This concerns me greatly! We've been married for 10 years and have 1 daughter but we've known each other over 20 years. 10 years dating and 10 married. What do I do? - BR DA Thu, 01 Mar 2007 19:32:55 +0100