Comments for Girlfriend Left Me at http://www.truthaboutdeception.com , comment 1 to 4 out of 4 comments http://www.truthaboutdeception.com Thu, 20 Nov 2008 04:46:35 +0100 FeedCreator 1.7.2 http://www.truthaboutdeception.com/ask_an_expert/relationship_problems/girlfriend_left_me.html#comment-1254 First off...not to make any issue out of it, but I'm gay and recently broke up with my b/f...and it really hurts allot, when it just ends like that I mean there you are thinking everything is ok well... up to an extend cause obviously only after the break-up did I realize I denied all the signs out of ignorance and the fear of loosing the guy. We had our lives planned out, we talked about adopting kids.... need I say more? We had our dreams, our future's together all planned out, and then one day it all just disappeared. Here is my advice to all the people who feeling what I feel, Life is a unexpected journey, no one can plan your future, live for what you want now, fall in love again but this time learn from of all your mistakes. Always make sure the person you fall in love with feels the same way and that there is no lust, sex etc involved attracting you to the relationship, and love,trust and respect yourself enough to love with all your heart but knowing that each day you spend with your lover might be the last and tomorrow you must be able to depend on yourself to face life! with or without him/her. SO NEVER TAKE ANY RELATIONSHIP FOR GRANTED!!! - RayKarl Mon, 24 Mar 2008 11:00:45 +0100 http://www.truthaboutdeception.com/ask_an_expert/relationship_problems/girlfriend_left_me.html#comment-308 My girlfriend of 10 yrs just broke up with me for a guy who just isn't her type. It hurts like hell I know and with the holidays it just makes it worse. But, if she's willing to just throw away 9 yrs of your life together. Than it's better you know now while your still young and can continue to date than when the looks start going south. My question to you is the same question to myself, do we really want them back and if they do come back, will things really change? Good luck to you! :) - understand Mon, 27 Nov 2006 11:05:31 +0100 http://www.truthaboutdeception.com/ask_an_expert/relationship_problems/girlfriend_left_me.html#comment-268 First off, you're the one who dumped the relationship. Your girlfriend is the one who just hung in there. You crossed the line of trust, no matter how you tried to make up after the fact. You broke the bond... Time to move on. - Randall Sun, 05 Nov 2006 18:32:55 +0100 http://www.truthaboutdeception.com/ask_an_expert/relationship_problems/girlfriend_left_me.html#comment-257 After reading your response and re-evaluating the relationship it makes a lot of sense. I love her so much to the point that I have allowed myself to accept what has happened and learned a lot from the content on this site. I will not give up on her, but I will not interfere with what she is pursuing. I will sit back and let nature take its course. Like the old adage states, "If you love her let her go... if she comes back she's yours to keep." - Paul Thu, 02 Nov 2006 07:36:59 +0100