Comments for Love Married Man at http://www.truthaboutdeception.com , comment 1 to 9 out of 9 comments http://www.truthaboutdeception.com Thu, 20 Nov 2008 06:34:07 +0100 FeedCreator 1.7.2 http://www.truthaboutdeception.com/ask_an_expert/infidelity/love_married_man.html#comment-1516 How do you feel been his bit on the side, you have no self respect to be in that position in the first place, you need to realize this guy is using you and his wife. If he didn't care about his wife, why hasn't he left her then? Get real love. - vk Fri, 01 Aug 2008 14:13:18 +0100 http://www.truthaboutdeception.com/ask_an_expert/infidelity/love_married_man.html#comment-1480 I am not sure why you feel you are in love after just two months of knowing this man?... I do however understand you, I was married for 8 years and my ex cheated on me, countless times. Needless to say I hated the females who slept with him and wondered how a woman could place her self in such a horrible situation. Well I am now 35 and have been single for 3 years... I recently meet a wonderful man 6 months ago as I was having lunch.. He was charming and seem to take a huge interest in me. I was taken by him and yet held back because of my prior experience.. Well we exchanged numbers after spending lunch together and he wasted no time to call me that very night.. I didn't answer his phone calls for several days and finally decided 'I had nothing to loose' Since then we spend 2-3 days out of the week together and needless to say I feel complete next to him... He is this wonderful addition to my life and I enjoy just holding him and feel at peace in arms.. 'Night and day from my prior relationship.' We just became sexually involved a month ago and as awkward as I thought it would be, it was the complete opposite. He was perfect and so in tune with me... us.. Well 2 weeks ago as we were finishing up with dinner, he pulled out his credit card and out fell a picture of him with a women and two kids.. My mind couldn't process it, was I now that other woman? He was nervous and just looked up at me and said "he could explain." He went on to said he was not in love with her, that she is an amazing wife and mother but there's no love.. He went on to explain his children are to young for him to leave and that they are the sole reason why he has not left. He begged me to understand him and he couldn't stop repeating how much he loved me.. I asked him to take me home I, tired not to cry and not once did I ask why he never mentioned it... I knew the answer to that.. I once was in his wife's shoes. He called, visited me at home and at work shortly after.. We discussed our feelings and how confused I was with this and once we kissed... I became that other woman... I am not sure if we will ever be together, I am just happy to have my friend back.. We are not been sexual since, I am not able to give him that at this point.... I have learned good girls aren't immune to these situations and love as insane as it may sound works in mysterious ways.... This man who is married and treatments me with respect is who I want to be with. I do know if within 6 months if he is still leaving with his wife, I will walk away and thank him for being a wonderful man to me, with no regrets. So to all of you who look down on the other woman, re-think before you judge... - Someone who knows Tue, 15 Jul 2008 11:47:49 +0100 http://www.truthaboutdeception.com/ask_an_expert/infidelity/love_married_man.html#comment-1123 What do you think cheating is??? Anyone who can cheat........."lies"!!! - get smart Tue, 22 Jan 2008 09:41:54 +0100 http://www.truthaboutdeception.com/ask_an_expert/infidelity/love_married_man.html#comment-1115 Your kidding... You can't believe that a man that cheats on his wife, can make up a lie like that to you??? Take off those rose colored glasses and get a clue!!! - Learned the hard way Thu, 17 Jan 2008 18:21:17 +0100 http://www.truthaboutdeception.com/ask_an_expert/infidelity/love_married_man.html#comment-775 Sorry, but you got off easy. You are not the victim here. What kind of woman would sleep with a man whom they know is married? - Alion Sat, 26 May 2007 13:15:22 +0100 http://www.truthaboutdeception.com/ask_an_expert/infidelity/love_married_man.html#comment-549 Don't be too terribly quick to judge him though. After all you ARE having an affair with a married man. He may be lying about his son, and lying in the first place by having an affair with you. But you are involved too and you know he is married. - Ike Mon, 05 Feb 2007 11:33:33 +0100 http://www.truthaboutdeception.com/ask_an_expert/infidelity/love_married_man.html#comment-548 I just left a man who lied to me and said he was single and has been a married man foe 18 yrs. who is wanting me to hang around and wait for him because he wants to leave his wife and live with me-he asked if I would put my life on hold. I said NO and get lost that I am better than this. - Ahhotep Sun, 04 Feb 2007 22:12:27 +0100 http://www.truthaboutdeception.com/ask_an_expert/infidelity/love_married_man.html#comment-366 You have the best proof that he lied. What more do you want? More lies? He cheated on his wife. He lied about his own son's condition (wimp!). He is probably planning to cheat on you, having found a new prey. Run and never look back. Invest your time with men who are available, sincere and truthful and who have your well-being in mind and heart. Good luck girl! - Jane Mercy Fri, 22 Dec 2006 09:19:25 +0100 http://www.truthaboutdeception.com/ask_an_expert/infidelity/love_married_man.html#comment-281 Drop this guy. If anyone, male or female, lies once they will lie again. That is not love. Do not try to understand where they are coming from, you won`t. Simply run, do not walk, in the opposite direction to where he is coming from. You sound really lovely and you definitely deserve better. - Norman Mon, 13 Nov 2006 00:05:47 +0100