Comments for Lying Girlfriend at http://www.truthaboutdeception.com , comment 1 to 3 out of 3 comments http://www.truthaboutdeception.com Thu, 20 Nov 2008 05:16:44 +0100 FeedCreator 1.7.2 http://www.truthaboutdeception.com/ask_an_expert/relationship_problems/lying_girlfriend.html#comment-429 As a woman, I can tell you that emotional affair and "very close non physical friendship" (for five years?) just don't match well. It is a virtually unbelievable combination. Your girlfriend may be thinking she hasn't had the truth from you, and that can more disturbing than the facts themselves. She might also be trying to deal with moral issues concerning your having an affair with a married person... I would, because I've been through a similar situation. If this be case, how about trying to tell the whole truth, and see how she reacts then? You may be surprised. Honesty is essential in these matters. It may probably help her steady herself once she knows what has been going on. And it is also fair for her. Maybe she could even accept your friend then (fear of the unknown as another person said). Let her know. And remember: Truth sets us free. Regards and good luck. - Tula Sun, 07 Jan 2007 17:28:16 +0100 http://www.truthaboutdeception.com/ask_an_expert/relationship_problems/lying_girlfriend.html#comment-289 I'm the girlfriend in an almost-identical scenario. I find that there is much more fear of *the unknown*. How about having your friend & girlfriend meet over dinner? If there's nothing illicit going on, you'll have nothing to worry about. And maybe they'll even be friends! - ... Tue, 14 Nov 2006 18:39:54 +0100 http://www.truthaboutdeception.com/ask_an_expert/relationship_problems/lying_girlfriend.html#comment-255 The same thing happened to me. My boyfriend has a female friend at work whom he has lied about seeing in the past. I caught him lying again and he is very angry that i have been checking up on him. He swears he is committed to our relationship but I find the lying makes me distrust him and I cannot move on from it. - Unhappy Wed, 01 Nov 2006 12:39:57 +0100