Comments for Girlfriend-Lied at http://www.truthaboutdeception.com , comment 1 to 1 out of 1 comments http://www.truthaboutdeception.com Thu, 20 Nov 2008 04:42:17 +0100 FeedCreator 1.7.2 http://www.truthaboutdeception.com/ask_an_expert/discovering_deception/girlfriend-lied.html#comment-333 Dear friend, your girlfriend is lying because she cannot properly express herself. She has a self-perceived "need" for the relationship with you for whatever reason.... Amongst them... co-dependency, low self-esteem, self loathing, insecurity... as they are all fused, varying in degree and all interconnected. From what you say, she is probably having an affair with her ex. It doesn't make her bad, wrong, or awful... It just is what it is. Can you accept who she really is? Do you love her for who she is? You can love her and still decide not to be in that type of relationship. You may decide to stay or maybe not, keep an open mind, and an open heart. People usually hurt others because they themselves have inner-pain, inner-anger, and are "broken" to some degree. It is what it is. No one is perfect, we are at varying levels in the evolution of our beings. it seems to me that you should just open it up and say hey, I feel like you are lying to me. This is not a good feeling for me to have about you and if we cannot both actively transform it through our relationship, I will be obligated to leave you in our own best interest... etc., etc. Good luck brother... I know the situation.... many blessings! -r - r2excels Fri, 08 Dec 2006 23:07:40 +0100