Comments for My Wife Kissed Another Man at http://www.truthaboutdeception.com , comment 1 to 10 out of 10 comments http://www.truthaboutdeception.com Thu, 20 Nov 2008 05:33:16 +0100 FeedCreator 1.7.2 http://www.truthaboutdeception.com/ask_an_expert/made_a_mistake/my_wife_kissed_another_man.html#comment-1822 I found out my wife of 3 years was seeing someone, no sex but kisses and cuddles. My world is rubbish now and I feel sorry for my kids. I would never trust her again, If there is communication problems she should say so!!!!!!! Kissing someone is NOT acceptable. My wife cries all the time but I don't care. I would never trust her again! - even Fri, 14 Nov 2008 14:39:39 +0100 http://www.truthaboutdeception.com/ask_an_expert/made_a_mistake/my_wife_kissed_another_man.html#comment-1447 I took my wife to a wine tasting. At the end there was a raffle, my wife went to the bar to get a drink and as they were about to begin the raffle I went to get her. I saw her hug and kiss another man... it took everything in me not to beat the s#!t out of him and walk away from our 20 year marriage. I am still dealing with this and trying to figure out what to do... I don't know if the advice they gave you is good, I'm too close to my own situation... good luck. - Reno Tue, 24 Jun 2008 13:26:03 +0100 http://www.truthaboutdeception.com/ask_an_expert/made_a_mistake/my_wife_kissed_another_man.html#comment-1444 Well I was in similar situation, I went with my single girl friend to night club,while my husband was traveling in California. The girl that was with me met a group of young men, some of them were from Boston. I didn't plan to meet anybody, but I met him, young, gorgeous and hot 100% Italian 24 years old. He told me so many complements about how I look, how beautiful I am. We started to kiss like crazy, I will be honest, I hadn't felt that happy in a long time. My husband is only concerned about my visits to the Gym and he is always negative about my looks and during sex he doesn't like to kiss at all. So in this crazy evening I felt drunk and happy but something stop me of having sex with this hottie in the end. I am not a woman who is looking for just fun for night. I didn't leave my phone or email and just ran away from that club, next days I was thinking how beautiful could be sex with him. I think that my husband is guilty because he put me in that position - where there no life exists for me as a woman and sex is not so important. I realize that it is wrong to kiss somebody. But being ignored by your own husband is 10 times more wrong!!! - Somebody Mon, 23 Jun 2008 17:54:39 +0100 http://www.truthaboutdeception.com/ask_an_expert/made_a_mistake/my_wife_kissed_another_man.html#comment-1427 I don't think you should trust her again. I wife cheated on me not long ago. I found out that she kissed the guy and also consider him as her "honey". Anyway, after I knew I found out and she sorry and said it wont happen again. But after many thinking. I came to a conclusion is that once she are able to kiss another guy, that means she has no feelings with you anymore. No matter how she felt sorry for what she's done, you'd never get back a love like before. It's very said but put it to an end is good for both of you. - BT Tue, 10 Jun 2008 22:54:45 +0100 http://www.truthaboutdeception.com/ask_an_expert/made_a_mistake/my_wife_kissed_another_man.html#comment-1188 Not even gonna read the other comments. You have a GOOD woman. Count yourself lucky that she is confident enough in you and your marriage to admit right off the bat that she screwed up. I would let my wife kiss 100 guys if I only knew I could trust her to tell me. And man, a kiss? It happens, get past that. She felt bad or she wouldn't have told ya. - GoingInsane Aj Wed, 20 Feb 2008 18:19:10 +0100 http://www.truthaboutdeception.com/ask_an_expert/made_a_mistake/my_wife_kissed_another_man.html#comment-1082 For "x" and all others in this situation: I am the wife who has kissed another while extremely inebriated; however, I panicked and stopped it at a kiss. I felt all giddy and romantic (like when I was a teenager) until the next day when I felt horrible for betraying my husband like that! I've been married 12 wonderful years, and after much consideration and advice-seeking, I decided not to tell my husband because I know that he's my one true love and that it would only hurt him for me to admit such a weakness. I also realized that the "romantic, giddy" emotions were purely alcohol-induced. I am not AT ALL attracted to the other man! My husband and I have joked quite a bit about "open" relationships and "what happens in fill-in-the-blank stays in fill-in-the-blank," but I know now for certain that I will never do anything to seriously jeopardize my marriage! - the wife Thu, 03 Jan 2008 02:11:49 +0100 http://www.truthaboutdeception.com/ask_an_expert/made_a_mistake/my_wife_kissed_another_man.html#comment-1040 I am in the same situation right now and don't know how to feel it happened to me about a week ago now. My wife did not have a friend there to stop her and she remembers kissing him. It did not go any farther then that but he wanted it to and she turned him down. I am wondering will she do it again she told me when we got home what happened and that she loves me and married me and wants to be with me. What do I do? - x Thu, 29 Nov 2007 18:48:58 +0100 http://www.truthaboutdeception.com/ask_an_expert/made_a_mistake/my_wife_kissed_another_man.html#comment-663 Forgive your wife and START COMMUNICATING!! The person is right on when they said most people who have been cheated on would envy your situation! - Ven Haris Mon, 19 Mar 2007 11:44:10 +0100 http://www.truthaboutdeception.com/ask_an_expert/made_a_mistake/my_wife_kissed_another_man.html#comment-96 After processing what happened to me I believe my emotions have calmed down and we are all only human. Anybody is capable of making a mistake at least once. I forgive my wife and don't think it will happen again. And want to thank all who responded and gave comments. - djl Wed, 14 Jun 2006 08:26:50 +0100 http://www.truthaboutdeception.com/ask_an_expert/made_a_mistake/my_wife_kissed_another_man.html#comment-95 I think you are so very lucky to have a wife like that. I don't think that she would call you up and just admit to kissing someone just once but twice. I think she is being truthful and is truly sorry. I think she loves you very much and didn't want to hurt your feelings and that is why she is so very upset. I wouldn't make her feel bad for telling you about it either because she'll feel she'll never be able to tell you anything ever again. Good Luck I think you and your wife have something very special. - Guest Wed, 14 Jun 2006 05:56:07 +0100