Comments for Lied to my Boyfriend at http://www.truthaboutdeception.com , comment 1 to 6 out of 6 comments http://www.truthaboutdeception.com Thu, 20 Nov 2008 04:54:43 +0100 FeedCreator 1.7.2 http://www.truthaboutdeception.com/ask_an_expert/lying/lied_to_my_boyfriend.html#comment-1815 Just recently my boyfriend spent a few days in ny while i stayed back home, the first night he left, i was invited to dinner with some friends in our apt complex, and the day he left we had been fighting really bad, and since i was so mad at him i didn't think he deserved to know what i was doing while he was gone. somehow four days ago he found out about what happened and i cam clean about what i did. he was so mad, we got into the biggest argument ever and he hit him and dragged me by my hair. I know it sounds crazy but after everything HE did to me with the hitting and stuff, i forgave him. only because i know what i did was wrong, but he is telling me we are over and that i have to move out, and that he wants to go our separate ways. i really have no where to go but even if i did i don't think i would because im so afraid this really is it, i love him so much, and yea i lied but i realize i made a HUGE mistake and i just wish he could find it in his heart to forgive just like i have, but part of me tells me it might be too late. we haven't really said much to each other maybe 5 words, and its so awkward cause im still living here. i don know what to do, and i really don't know how to cope. - Ashley M Mon, 10 Nov 2008 18:19:35 +0100 http://www.truthaboutdeception.com/ask_an_expert/lying/lied_to_my_boyfriend.html#comment-1807 That happened to me as well when I lost my boyfriend about being pregnant for nine months he was devastated when he found out about it I apologized about but he did not want to hear and he ended our relationship after a year in a have although I love him and I want to get back with him I know it would never be the same again after what I did I was only thinking about my self and how much I didn't want to lose him but I'm still healing but I know its best to just move on with my life as well. - Yasha Fri, 07 Nov 2008 15:05:08 +0100 http://www.truthaboutdeception.com/ask_an_expert/lying/lied_to_my_boyfriend.html#comment-1742 I'm going through this too. I lied to my boyfriend a long time ago to protect him and nearly lost him when he found out. We got back together and after a fantastic year, (with some downs) I lied to him last night. I said I wasn't talking online to his friend when I was. And when he questioned me about it instead of saying yes I was but it was just conversation, which it was, I said I wasn't. Turns out he had seen the conversation and so knew I was lying. He went mad. And I dug myself deeper. By the time the row was over he kicked me out. And I said, if you weren't so paranoid I'd feel like I didn't have to hide things from you. That was the truth. I felt like even though I did nothing wrong, I had to lie to avoid arguments. But no, a bigger one came about and I'm petrified of losing him. :( what do I do !!!???? - jessicairish Tue, 14 Oct 2008 09:51:03 +0100 http://www.truthaboutdeception.com/ask_an_expert/lying/lied_to_my_boyfriend.html#comment-1707 I did the same thing to my bf.. I lied to him about my past.. but since I've been with him I've not lied bout anything else.... I only lied when I was not with him yet... since were together I've been sincere and loving. I don't even feel like looking at other guys coz I love him so much.. but he never wants to forgive me... I promised to him that I will never lie to him ever again ... but he is really hurt that I lied.. I blame myself for lying to him. I did it so I wouldn't loose him... but now I'm lost... he doesn't wanna talk to me and he ended our relationship yesterday giving the reason that I lied - he hates me for that. - -- Sat, 04 Oct 2008 03:30:53 +0100 http://www.truthaboutdeception.com/ask_an_expert/lying/lied_to_my_boyfriend.html#comment-904 I'm 29, also a guy, and had the same thing happen to me. My girlfriend had an 'emotional affair' online with another guy and kept it from me. when i found out, i kicked her to the curb. but she begged me back and i gave in. turns out later that she escalated the affair from online chatting to late night phone calls (hours long), and numerous texts messages back and forth. Again, she kept it from me, and after finding out, I confronted her. And then she did the single most stupid thing ever, she told me she wanted to take a break so she could work things out with him. After that, there was simply no way I could trust her fully ever again. I simply cant put my heart in her hands and know that i'm a priority in her life, even if she does indeed place me at the top. Some things, once broken, can never be repaired. You may win back your boyfriend, but you'll never win back his trust. You should move on. - guest Fri, 17 Aug 2007 00:32:19 +0100 http://www.truthaboutdeception.com/ask_an_expert/lying/lied_to_my_boyfriend.html#comment-91 Hi, I am a 21 year guy. The same thing happened to me. My girlfriend broke my trust in front of my eyes and we sort of broke off at that point of time. She was double dating me with my own friend and it was shocking for me. But somehow we are back together today. But i still feel suspicious at times about her, even though she has been very loving and caring then ever. I trust her now, but only to a certain extent. I still cannot get comfortable with her. So my suggestion for you would be that find a new guy for yourself cause even if you get him back, he won't trust you fully. I know it is hard to do that but I guess that's the way it is. Hope you get what you want. And ya, my girlfriend has become an addiction for me so nor can I leave her neither can I stay away from her. I hope its not the same with you. I hope you get with the right person. Take care. - Guest Mon, 05 Jun 2006 16:36:34 +0100