Comments for Confronting-My-Wife's-Lover at http://www.truthaboutdeception.com , comment 1 to 5 out of 5 comments http://www.truthaboutdeception.com Wed, 20 Aug 2008 05:20:14 +0100 FeedCreator 1.7.2 http://www.truthaboutdeception.com/ask_an_expert/infidelity/confronting-my-wife%27s-lover.html#comment-1552 I would not confront the other person. Anyone who would get involve with someone who is married has some deep problems! Work on yourself and your marriage. - quest Tue, 12 Aug 2008 16:34:15 +0100 http://www.truthaboutdeception.com/ask_an_expert/infidelity/confronting-my-wife%27s-lover.html#comment-1532 This is both an eye opening and depressing site. Much obliged. - poskk22 Tue, 05 Aug 2008 17:12:38 +0100 http://www.truthaboutdeception.com/ask_an_expert/infidelity/confronting-my-wife%27s-lover.html#comment-1491 Get positive ID on him, get pictures of the two together. Find out if he's married, what he does, his background. Develop a plan to destroy him and everything in his world. Blackmail him first then start the plan and have fun. Watch as the SOBs life falls apart and enjoy it. - 3ric Tue, 22 Jul 2008 21:11:50 +0100 http://www.truthaboutdeception.com/ask_an_expert/infidelity/confronting-my-wife%27s-lover.html#comment-1308 But what if you're simply trying to confirm the status of their relations? I'm in that spot. There's a guy. I know it's most likely more than friends. I want to call, see if he even knows she's married and simply tell him that she (they) are welcome to do whatever they please, but as I'm not getting strait answers I need to confirm the nature so I can protect myself if necessary. Thoughts? - david pee Wed, 16 Apr 2008 08:58:49 +0100 http://www.truthaboutdeception.com/ask_an_expert/infidelity/confronting-my-wife%27s-lover.html#comment-70 I would like to ask if your wife's reaction is based on what you know about her affair? If this information is out in the open and it still remains active. If so, it would seem to me that she is determined to be with the other person and you're not taking a very assertive part in this problem. If the information is not in the open, then you should confront her about it and you both need to make a decision of what you want to do with your marriage. - Guest Thu, 27 Apr 2006 18:50:11 +0100