Comments for Find Website Offensive at http://www.truthaboutdeception.com , comment 1 to 5 out of 5 comments http://www.truthaboutdeception.com Wed, 20 Aug 2008 14:43:31 +0100 FeedCreator 1.7.2 http://www.truthaboutdeception.com/ask_an_expert/questions_about_website/find_website_offensive.html#comment-853 Dear Lotus, Sorry about the problem you encountered. We do not mind if people take sections of our articles and post them on other sites - as long as a link and citation are included. The only problem we sometimes encounter is that other websites, then remove the citation and the link - presenting our work as their own. And if you ever need to contact us - please use the "contact" at "truthaboutdeception.com" address. - moderator Mon, 16 Jul 2007 10:01:25 +0100 http://www.truthaboutdeception.com/ask_an_expert/questions_about_website/find_website_offensive.html#comment-845 I recently posted some articles from this website to another forum and made sure that I included the link to this website so the readers could know where I got it. I was told that the writers of these articles contacted the forum and objected to the articles being posted. First of all, I thought by adding the link to the end of the articles I was acknowledging the source and therefore not violating any copyright laws. I am a published author and I understand what it means to have your work taken. I tried looking for contact information and author names and none were listed on the home page. If you object to having your material reposted, please provide a name and email address so that we can go through the proper channels. Thank you, Lotus - Lotus Mon, 09 Jul 2007 15:37:03 +0100 http://www.truthaboutdeception.com/ask_an_expert/questions_about_website/find_website_offensive.html#comment-704 Funny we should question the validity of right and wrong...even more, it is funny no one mentions "consequences." You see, when you lack integrity and lie to a spouse loved one or even your boss, it doesn't come without consequences unless of course you achieve the reality of what you innately become which is liar without care or concern of being caught and facing consequences! Moreover, it is funny you should reference children in your opinions of deception. You see, children do lie much so as they do get into trouble and learn through the mistakes they make. That is the key here, they learn through their "mistakes" (i.e., lies are wrong) and ultimately pay consequences for those mistakes. As mistakes are made, they are disciplined. Hopefully our mentoring of them will make them into better individuals overall...honesty, ask yourself why we would have laws??? There is something to be said about the phrase "honesty is the best policy"...it's to avoid negative consequences. In your example, a spouse lies to her husband about not calling him. She is said to be having a good time and therefore decides not to call. When questioned about this, she lies and says she was busy and/or couldn't make the call. Is it so hard to believe that the husband in this case wouldn't be receptive and understanding and the consequence of her truthfulness are good? Perhaps this is not the case if her actions of lying occurred on a regular basis. The question that should be asked is “who is best served?” ...just a thought. - KT Thu, 12 Apr 2007 10:35:07 +0100 http://www.truthaboutdeception.com/ask_an_expert/questions_about_website/find_website_offensive.html#comment-139 When I found your website I was elated. I had been trying to figure out how to get my boyfriend of almost 3 years to stop lying to me. Most of the information you have here is great and I thank you for putting this on the web. However, I do have negative feedback about the "How to Lie" link. Most people tend to rationalize lying, but the bottom line is that it's wrong. Truth should always stand against lies. It's not a moral relative (i.e. what's right for you may not be right for me.) I think it's reckless to place this type of information on your site in an effort to be "balanced." I hope you'll reconsider your position. Thanks again for creating such a great and useful website! - Guest Sat, 12 Aug 2006 15:45:52 +0100 http://www.truthaboutdeception.com/ask_an_expert/questions_about_website/find_website_offensive.html#comment-56 Your website is GREAT! So much information and so well organized. Way to go! - Guest Mon, 27 Mar 2006 12:21:37 +0100