Comments for Boyfriend Hides Things From Me at http://www.truthaboutdeception.com , comment 1 to 2 out of 2 comments http://www.truthaboutdeception.com Thu, 20 Nov 2008 04:17:20 +0100 FeedCreator 1.7.2 http://www.truthaboutdeception.com/ask_an_expert/discovering_deception/boyfriend_hides_things_from_me.html#comment-511 If your boyfriends are looking at porn that seriously... leave. I denied my intuition about a previous boyfriends porn habits, married him, and it was a disaster. Always go with your intuition. Porn is an addiction, and you will lose in the end. - lch6879 Tue, 30 Jan 2007 14:41:39 +0100 http://www.truthaboutdeception.com/ask_an_expert/discovering_deception/boyfriend_hides_things_from_me.html#comment-242 I found out, once my boyfriend moved in, that he has a HUGE stash of porn movies, and was spending pretty much all of his free time after he got home, and before I did, watching it and masturbating. Now, I could understand it when he was alone, but we have an extremely active sex life and he is never turned down for sex, so to have this stuff in my house on a continual basis is highly disconcerting. I did talk to him about it, calmly on several occasions, and he agreed not to watch it. Lies - I caught him. This prompted another serious discussion, and we made a bet that he wouldn't watch it for 2 months. That lasted for 2 days, but he lied again to me about watching it. I don't agree with the message in these responses that porn is something that "guys do." I believe there is a serious addiction problem, at least in my case, and where there is deception along with it, I'm positive. I do want to seek professional help because this is unacceptable to me in it's current form. Don't ever compromise your own value system to put up with something you are uncomfortable with. - Lynn P Tue, 10 Oct 2006 18:43:11 +0100