Comments for girlfriend threatens tell wife at http://www.truthaboutdeception.com , comment 1 to 7 out of 7 comments http://www.truthaboutdeception.com Thu, 20 Nov 2008 05:41:39 +0100 FeedCreator 1.7.2 http://www.truthaboutdeception.com/ask_an_expert/infidelity/girlfriend_threatens_tell_wife.html#comment-1802 If you really want the marriage to work and want to repair the damage, you must be honest with your wife. The affair happened because something was missing from the Marriage. A marriage takes two. Hopefully you and your wife will be able to learn from this tragic mistake and improve the marriage together. Actions speak louder than words. You must end all contact with the other woman. - Name Tue, 04 Nov 2008 10:22:05 +0100 http://www.truthaboutdeception.com/ask_an_expert/infidelity/girlfriend_threatens_tell_wife.html#comment-1709 I think the whole lot is selfish, any woman who has an affair with a married man is going to get her heart broken, all you are doing is giving a married man his cake and eat it. You haven't left your wife for the coworker, you want the best of both, either way you have been selfish and the wife gets hurt. The solution is stay away from people who are already involved in a relationship, both the coworker and the husband should have realized this was just going to lead to pain and misery. - Selfish Sun, 05 Oct 2008 09:07:27 +0100 http://www.truthaboutdeception.com/ask_an_expert/infidelity/girlfriend_threatens_tell_wife.html#comment-1683 I think you need to find a counselor that agrees to preserving your secret. You should engage counseling with both the wife, and the girlfriend. This will buy you some time with the mistress, since you are offering counseling. And then after the counselor hears both sides of your life, they can help you what to do. I would also find an attractive counselor that you may be able to spark up a fling with... May sound low rent, but it's kind of like the econo bailout plan, what do you really have to loose? - homer Sun, 28 Sep 2008 23:10:07 +0100 http://www.truthaboutdeception.com/ask_an_expert/infidelity/girlfriend_threatens_tell_wife.html#comment-1654 It sounds like you have a very immature girlfriend! Keep going to counseling and be more involved with positive activities with your kids and be a good example for them. - Grow up Fri, 19 Sep 2008 09:31:01 +0100 http://www.truthaboutdeception.com/ask_an_expert/infidelity/girlfriend_threatens_tell_wife.html#comment-1593 I have done the same thing to threaten the person I am having the affair with that I will tell her if he doesn't I want him to hurt every time he says he is going to make his marriage work when he has had numerous opportunities but decided to keep it going that's because I allow it. There are times I'm so serious to tell her but then think I don't want to hurt him because I love him its one of the worst feelings I have had in my life to get tangled into something as an affair and loving someone more than my ex husband its shattering. But I said I would not hurt him on my own he will be found out one day on his own and then he will have to explain for the second time why he continued to see me. She has to be so clueless he is always with me either that or she just does not care. - clutchcargo Thu, 28 Aug 2008 12:46:12 +0100 http://www.truthaboutdeception.com/ask_an_expert/infidelity/girlfriend_threatens_tell_wife.html#comment-1543 I think it's great your going to counseling with your wife. I would talk it over with the counselor and it will help you process what you need to do. - quest Sun, 10 Aug 2008 09:02:04 +0100 http://www.truthaboutdeception.com/ask_an_expert/infidelity/girlfriend_threatens_tell_wife.html#comment-1395 :'( if it is you try for the last time with your wife and it does not work then you can proceed to seek someone else but for now you are in a tricky situation because you could lose your wife and also the connection with the other person who you have grown an attachment with. So please try to make better decisions in the future. - london brown Wed, 28 May 2008 11:22:53 +0100