Comments for husband std at http://www.truthaboutdeception.com , comment 1 to 12 out of 12 comments http://www.truthaboutdeception.com Thu, 20 Nov 2008 06:23:28 +0100 FeedCreator 1.7.2 http://www.truthaboutdeception.com/ask_an_expert/infidelity/husband_std.html#comment-1831 I though I would give an update... I finally managed to get my husband to seek medical advice after I mentioned I was. Ladies..Please..have him seek reliable medical advice..My husband went into an emergency medical clinic; was not given a complete, thorough exam.. and his cauliflower like, skin colored, "bumps"(typical symptoms of GW) were diagnosed as skin tags, and burnt off. He then came home angry saying that no, he did not give me an STD. I am not a doctor, but I am sure IT IS GW..And he has been misdiagnosed; I still have my own appointment; but meanwhile my proof has run out the door; and of course he still denies it. - crazy with doubts Mon, 17 Nov 2008 12:11:59 +0100 http://www.truthaboutdeception.com/ask_an_expert/infidelity/husband_std.html#comment-1817 Well ladies I have you all beat for the biggest dummy award! My husband has given me an STD [b]3 times! Oh yes 3![/b] The last one I found out about on my birthday. Let me tell you something, if he did it once, no matter what he's telling you, he will do it again so [b]LEAVE NOW![/b] Understand that you have been living a lie so what ever beautiful picture you have in your mind as the "before" he had an affair... get rid of it! That picture NEVER existed! He has [i]been[/i] playing you smooth which why you believe it can still work. He will say ANYTHING to keep you around and believe me, the next time you may not be so lucky as to only contract a curable STD. You also have to understand that 9 out of 10 times, this is [b]NOT[/b] his first time cheating on you, this is just the first time you found out. I wish you all the best. Your "man" is cheating with loose women (he's loose too) and everyone he sleeps with, you sleep with and everyone the person he's slept with sleeps with, you have both slept with. Gross right? Jump ship the first time and don't end up like me or that poor women with cancer from contracting HPV. I'm running for the hills ladies, it's a bumpy ride but I'd rather deal with those bumps than ones on my genitals or hide! - FeelingStupid Wed, 12 Nov 2008 06:53:19 +0100 http://www.truthaboutdeception.com/ask_an_expert/infidelity/husband_std.html#comment-1814 I am so happy I have found others with the same situation as me; nothing else I have found on the internet mentions this side of it. I noticed "bumps" on my husband about 2yrs back and thought nothing of it; they have increased in number and have gotten larger; from the pics I have seen I am certain it is GW (HPV). It is almost a year I have asked him to be checked for this; not mentioning what I thought this could be.. I have made an appointment with my doctor to be checked; but if these results are positive, we have been married 14yrs; I find it VERY hard to believe that this can lie dormant for this long. I have asked him about being with others and has denied it time and time again; what a way to find out the truth!! - crazy with doubts Mon, 10 Nov 2008 10:24:17 +0100 http://www.truthaboutdeception.com/ask_an_expert/infidelity/husband_std.html#comment-1755 Are there any condoms in these pictures? If you love someone you can still be with them and use condoms with them. If you sneak around on someone then condoms are definitely required. Every encounter without a condom is Russian Roulette with your LIFE. How come this conversation is not coming to the forefront? - polyanna Sat, 18 Oct 2008 00:15:40 +0100 http://www.truthaboutdeception.com/ask_an_expert/infidelity/husband_std.html#comment-1731 Well, I just got home from the urgent care center where the Doctor is quite certain I have trich. Mind you, I've been with my boyfriend for 1 1/2 years and he swears up and down he's never cheated on me. SWEARS UP AND DOWN! Meanwhile, the test results have yet to come back - have to wait a few days for those. The doctor told me not to do anything crazy until I get those back, as things like this can ruin marriages, as he put it. Still, I informed my boyfriend of the events and told him that if he's not guilty, then we have nothing to worry about and the results should come back negative. Still hard to relax, though. I specifically asked the doc if it could be contracted any other way or is it just specifically through sex and he said it is only transmittable through sex. And I have ONLY been with my boyfriend. And I was tested BEFORE he and I got together and everything was fine. So, if I get this test back and it comes up as positive - what does that mean? That he cheated on me? - A. Sat, 11 Oct 2008 18:23:11 +0100 http://www.truthaboutdeception.com/ask_an_expert/infidelity/husband_std.html#comment-1600 Well, my story may be the worst. Married for 29 years, just recently diagnosed with the worst strain of HPV there is which causes cervical cancer. Please research this. I didn't know. I have cervical cancer thanks to my loving, cheating husband. I had no idea he was cheating. We have a nice house, he is respected, we have beautiful, accomplished daughters, we HAD the perfect marriage. He has now sentenced me to death. HPV does not lie dormant in the body for 29 years. He picked it up during the last two years. I tested positive for a low grade strain three years ago... the kind that resolves itself. This strain kills you. No one in the world is aware of how dangerous this STD is. I don't understand. What is ironic is that my two adult daughters have always said that "Daddy adores you. We hope our husbands love us as much." Daddy may adore me, but he has handed me a death sentence. When my doctor told me that I was hpv positive and had pre-cancer cells and now cancer cells, I told my husband to get out of my house. He swears he didn't cheat, but science busted him. I would never have known. Now, I'm sure he is hiding his money, but I'll get it. It's just I'm 58 years old and this is going to be tough. No, I will never forgive him or take him back. I can make it on my own. I just wish I had known that he cheated. I would have left a long time ago. - Mississippi Belle Tue, 02 Sep 2008 21:50:57 +0100 http://www.truthaboutdeception.com/ask_an_expert/infidelity/husband_std.html#comment-1572 This is what happens when you look for a big hunky money grubbing alpha male. You get a man who can screw whoever he wants and will pass the STDs around. - Mister Luls Mon, 18 Aug 2008 22:00:52 +0100 http://www.truthaboutdeception.com/ask_an_expert/infidelity/husband_std.html#comment-1485 Hello Ladies, I, too, like you have been infected with an STD (trich). I just found out yesterday, and I am so hurt, and feel so stupid, because I relaxed and finally began to trust my boyfriend of 18 months. It hurts so even more, because before I found out about the STD the @#$*** had the nerve to break up with me! I am hurting over here! Now, I need to tell him, and I think that he is going to think that this is only my way of getting to see him. He broke up with me in a text message. I thought he was my friend; on my team. What the heck! I am disappointed more than anything, because he turned out to be a punk and not the man that I thought he was. Big, 6'5" undercover SWAT man. To top it off I found out that he is also married. His wife had been in another state taking care of her ill mother! ! ! I swear I want to expose him, but I am going to leave revenge to fate. I know now that I must not be the only other women, so someone else is sure to get him! I'm sorry for all of us. Hey, you all be strong. We'll get through this one long day a night at a time. But this too shall pass!!! - Cha-Cha Thu, 17 Jul 2008 19:02:27 +0100 http://www.truthaboutdeception.com/ask_an_expert/infidelity/husband_std.html#comment-1471 Wow so many of us. I have been with my husband 7 years and just found out today I have an STD. I am also pregnant. He is trying to say we must have had it for years (a lie, I just had a test 15 months ago with my last pregnancy and it was all neg.) I have never even looked at another man. I am so lost and don't know what to do. - Hurt and Confused Tue, 08 Jul 2008 17:29:02 +0100 http://www.truthaboutdeception.com/ask_an_expert/infidelity/husband_std.html#comment-1466 My husband had to confess to cheating on me, because he discovered he had Herpes, and decided it would be nice to let me know I had it too. He was cheating on me for 5years of our 7year marriage. He cheated on me with prostitutes. My only indication of infidelity was 2 years ago, I found a girls number in his pocket. He later(after several days) of thinking of a good excuse, told me he had asked her out, but never called. It stinks, we have two kids. It's amazing how selfish people can be. - unanamous Thu, 03 Jul 2008 23:09:35 +0100 http://www.truthaboutdeception.com/ask_an_expert/infidelity/husband_std.html#comment-1306 I have been married for 33 yrs and I contracted trich. I was with my mom a lot for health reasons in and out of the hospital. My husband swears he doesn't know how I got it. I just wish he would be honest with me. Everything I have read says sexual contact is the only way to get it. I feel your pain! And I don't know what to do either. - lost molly Tue, 15 Apr 2008 18:00:05 +0100 http://www.truthaboutdeception.com/ask_an_expert/infidelity/husband_std.html#comment-1261 Well as my story is similar, I found out the Very hard way that my "wonderful" husband of ten years has cheated... by way of STD test results! Although the STD is treatable and I will be fine health wise, it's the cheating part that really gets me. He's of course denied it, and has no idea how he got this STD he's given me. And of course has never been with anyone else?!?!?!?! The medical facts say that he's a LIAR. However I have never been suspicious of him and our relationship has been really great for the whole marriage. Not by any means perfect but we have tons of fun together and we have a good sex life, we laugh a lot and travel together as frequently as possible. At this point I really do want to believe that he's being truthful with me but the medical facts say otherwise.... Confused - blank Thu, 27 Mar 2008 13:46:13 +0100