My husband tells me he is not cheating but he starts a row between us and then storms out and dosnt come back, this time he has been gone a week and still there is no sign of him, he has no clothes with him or anything else, I have phoned him and he says he is sleeping in his car every night so how is he charging his mobile and he must be very dirty and smelly because where does he wash also he has been going to work through the day. I dont know what to think. How do i go about finding out if he is cheating?

Hurting--That's classic cheater behavior...to start a fight so they can leave and go to the other woman. I'm sorry to say I am sure he is not in his car and he is lying. Don't worry about him. He probably has some other woman snowed and is lying to her about you if he has even admitted to being married. Do yourself a favor and do what makes you happy without him. He doesn't deserve your love and concern.If and only if you can afford a p.i., hire one to get the evidence you need. In my case, I snooped but couldn't get close enough to take a pic, so I didn't have real evidence and he went so far as to say I was hallucinating. LOL What a jerk.

Behavior like that is unacceptable in a marriage. I would never let my husband be gone for days at a time and if he did that I would have been gone a long time ago. Regardless if he is cheating, at this point he doesnt care about your feelings and doesnt want to be at home with you. I dont know if I believe that he is sleeping in his car either. Have you checked the bank accounts? Credit cards? Cell phone? Go to his work and find out whats going on. If you really want to know then you have to take an active role in finding out whats going on, its not going to be easy but you have to find out. Dont let him do this to you, dont be a doormate for him to come home and walk all over, that is if he even comes home. If you are going to do some digging then you need to prepair yourself for what you might find. Dont dig if you dont want to know, at this point there is a good chance that he has someone else. Be strong, respect yourself and stand up for yourself. A real man doesnt cheat and he sure as hell doesnt stay away from the women that he loves. Do what you need to do for YOU!