Leave his butt. Tell hime you found out and u are leaving

Something that I found was that names on mobile phones are not just stored under names but also under numbers, I looked in all the wrong places and then bingo...... here was the OW number. So much for not staying in touch.

My husband worked with this ugly witch at his job which is from 7 pm to 7am, 12 hour shifts in a semiconductor fab, I never really thought anything at first, but he made friends with this girl that worked his shift. One day when we went out to play pool with his guy co-worker and his g/f, she called the guy workers phone and askedif my husband was there and to put him on the phone, I told him you are spending too much time talking to her on the phone cause he was ignoring me, and I told him to hang up, so he did and quickly said we were just talking about my friend paul cause she wants to date him, So I let it go, next thing him and his guy friend went out and he lied to me, he told me he was going to his home to play games, but the room mate told me he lied, when he got in he was drunk and admitted to dancing with girls and She was there, he danced with her. she never showed up to any place while I was there, and when he would call me they would be sitting together at lunch. he would talk to her about things he never talked with me about.supposedly she got moved to another shift, he would talk about her alot, and wouldn't let me in on his work e-mail where she could have wrote to him,I'm 4 months pregnant now and I got sick tonight and he supposedly left his pager in his locker. I have no Idea if I'm just acting ridiculous or if there is something going on, can someone please help me?????

My husband worked out of town during the week and came home weekends in 2006-2008. I speed dialed him in the middle of April 2008 and a girl answered! That's when I started to educate myself on the internet. After almost 30 yrs. of being married,following are the symptoms I noticed:

-treated me very well on the week ends, kind,thoughtful,etc.
-impotent often
-a couple times showered after got home
-received nice jewelry as bday,valentines,etc.
-when we did have sex, MANY new moves
-didn't get mad, EVER, if I accidentally broke something
-started jogging and working on increasing his distance in jogging up to 5 mi.(never jogged before, because of knee problems!!!!)

Hope this helps others, dealing w/ liars and cheaters as a partner.

Why are you still with him?

Quit asking him and ask yourself what do I want.
Are you happy with things the way they are?
Seek counseling, ask him to join you. If he doesn't go anyway.