y wife had an affair with her boss. The way I found out is when his wife called me at home and told me about the affair. She found out 8 months before she called me and asked that I have my wife stop calling her husband as they were trying to reconcile. The affair lasted for over a year and during that whole time she lived each day with me as if I was her one and only. She would kiss me every morning before she left the house to go to work , tell me she loved me and once out the door she would call him. The wife I thought I knew had class, was intelligent with high moral fiber. The places they had sex are the same places a prostitute would have sex when at work. At work they would have cybersex, she would belittle me on the computer then she would come home , make love to me and say I love you. Once I found out about the affair is when it all ended. She still works in the same building as him but insists that it's completly over but won't leave her job. She says she always loved me and still does and promises never to do it again and wants to work things out. On my part I can't help but to reflect on the point that If I never found out it would still be going on. There affair ended on my terms not her's. We've been together for over 12 years, and thought I knew her inside and out. It was not till I found out about the fair my wife all of a sudden developed a "kinky submissive" side of her I never seen before. A side I never knew exsisted and she wants me to believe he is not the reason. She swears up and down this would never happen again. Can a woman so deceptive for over a year leading 2 different lives without giving a clue change?