My wife had a 30 day text affair, she gave a police man oral sex twice whilst he was at work. I found out and had the guy suspended, I have thrown the book at him, informed his wife, he has lost his wife, kids and job.

I have forgiven my wife, I took out all my vengance on the other guy, is this normal, or do I have issues?

Now I have, bugs in the house, mobile tracking, spy phones, key logging on the computer. I'm paronoid.

I blame myself for not being a good husband, but she's on her last chance, I screwed the other guy, why can't i just kick the wife to the kerb?

I don't get it. The last time a woman did something like this to me she was out the door. Came back begging and crying, but I didn't take her back. Why are you so mad at the cop guy. It's your woman who betrayed you dude . And now your whining on whether you should kick her out. Man, you need your head examined.
Bugging the house?? Why go through that expense and emotional aggrevation? The best way to get over a woman is to be around as many other women as you possibly can, when ever you can. Quit cryin and get a backbone. It's time for you to move on.

Dr LT- I would like to hear your opinion on my situation please read "am I right to feel betrayed"and give me your input