It took the Police to finally get my CL out. I kept threatening to call if he would not leave, even went as far as emailing the OW and she emailed him and i a response. He came home furious, I threatened to call the Police he called them instead. They came, he was acting crazy, they offered to do nothing or have us both arrested due to me slapping him months earlier when I found out he was cheating.....I asked if they would or could remove him and they stated only if we got arrested, so off to jail I went. It had to come to me being arrested to get hiom out, otherwise he would have lived with me forever and continued cheating on the side. It was horrible.

Oh my God. You have no ideal how happy and sad I am to find this site, and to then read your posting. YES, I would like to join any group you start regarding compulsive liars. I'm married to one and have bee for 6 years. The entire marriage was based on deception and lies, but I didn't realize it until I had falling in love with him. I really don't want to writ too much right now because I know he reads all my e-mails and post, but yeas, I would love to be in your group. Please contact me at This e-mail address is being protected from spam bots, you need JavaScript enabled to view it and God bless you!!

Hi All

Just wondering how you are doing Acceptance? I am so so, been better but been much worse. Still have huge hangups regarding lying and deception and my gut instinct is so finely tuned it drives me nuts at times. I can spot a lie and a liar at 20 paces I am sure. If I sniff anything I don't feel confortable with I track down the truth and I can't rest until I have it.

Nothing gets past me anymore and I don't like living this way but this is how coping with a compulsive liar and the crazy making has made me and I can't undo that.

I hope things are still going well for you and your new man is continuing his love and support and understanding for what these creatures have done to us.

Much love across the miles.

CC XXX