OMG ! I have experienced an almost identical problem.
I am STILL waiting for answers but have moved forward with my life .

What is the problem with these over eager marriage proposers?

I know you must be feeling really raw with emotion right now but this site helped me so much with working things out and offering me a place to express my saddness and despair when things got really hard to handle .

If he doesn't contact you then you'll know like I found out that he was just messing with your head . Now I think of it my "ex's" grandfather even had a seperate family perhaps it's something genetic going on ?

You will get through this and it will get easier. Love really has nothing to do with it if you're not in love with someone .

Good Luck .

After the catastrophic experience I just had with my EX i would say don't waste any more precious time troubling your head over this guy.

Frankly he sounds kind of wacky and the sister and the over protective family it 's all way too much to deal with .

Get up have a beautiful day, week month year and learn to live without even thinking about him . One day you'll wonder what the hell you were doing and thinking ?

Love has nothing to do with it Girl it's just phoney baloney . Same old story all over the world : Girl leaves Boy and Boy leaves Girl .

Stop dragging yourself through the mud thinking about it and worry about your new home, and the new friends and new man you 're bound to find in a new place .

Enjoy and forget it .