Hello,
I have been in a relationship with my boyfriend for 8 months, we have plans to leave the country.. he took the first step to make interviews, i know it is hard on him applying for a job, a new career in a new country.. And for some problems with my stepfamily, i will follow him after a 3 to 4 months..
He shall be going for a couple of weeks, then he will be back until he gets a reply on being accepted for the jobs he had applied for..
Since he is gone, he haven't called, i text him and i rarely get replies, but when i call he rapidly answers and he talks in a wonderful loving way.. but it bugs me when i text and he doesn't reply, and why he doesn't call at all..
Is it only the pressure from job hunting (for him)..
Shall i call him again.. i do text him not expecting an answer for i got used to it.. But i really miss his voice, i wanna hear his news, how all is going with him..
I wonder why doesn't he call to make sure am ok, or at least to tell me how things are going with him..
I need some advice
regards

Hi, if you are getting used to not getting an answer I think you have solved your own problem.

It Looks like he is creating distance between you but you have to ask why and the best thing to do is be honest and ask him. That is the only way to get to the bottom of the problem and any worries you are having .

Be prepared for the truth .

Life will go on and you can make it good and positive so long as you remain calm and hope for the best.

Good luck

I dont know my husband does that to me sometimes and most of the time when he does it its because he is having a hard time. he knows that he tends to take everything out on me so in order to avoid the fight he ignores me. I dont know if your BF does this to you often then maybe its no big deal but if this is something new then maybe you should talk to him about whats going.

have you asked him why he does it?

Well,
Thanks for the replies,I've actually called him, and asked him why isn't he calling or even texting, he said he had no credits(that he was going to top his mobile-and he did), and that he was so busy in his thinking(work etc.), But that it would be easier on him if i was there..(and he said he understands that i can't go there right now, and that he's just expressing that he miss me)..
I told him, that i shall finish everything i have to sort out here,and follow.. and that he doesn't have to call me, texting me and replying to my texts is more that enough to make sure he is doing ok.. he actually appologised and said he's sorry that he wasn't in contact..
Since that phone call, he texts me about 4 times a day saying how his day is going..
One thing still bothering me, and i donno how to bring out the subject.. is if he's still in a relationship with Joe..
But i think the best time to talk to him about it is when he gets back..