So i posted a topic on here about my constantly lying boyfriend and since then, he has continued to stay at a girls house twice and he lied to me about both times, again. I really love this guy and I tried everything to make our relationship work. So i asked a girl, who was the sister of a guy my boyfriend would go with to sleep over at the twin's house, to tell me if he does it again. The next day, my boyfriend told methat we needed to talk which i knew ment nothing good. He found out that i had asked her to tell me if he stayed there again and he accused me of getting someone to spy on him. So over that and others reasons that he wont tell me, he broke up with me or as he calls it "a little break" . he says he needs time to think about our relationship but he didnt seem very sure about going on a break. he tells me that he still loves me and we might get back together or we might now and the waiting his killing me even though its only been a day. I feel like crap sitting around waiting to see if he will come back for me. We were together for over 2 years and this is extrmely hard for me. Ive tried to tell him that i want to make this relationship work but he just says he doesnt want to talk about it right now. He also told my friend that he wasnt sure if hes making the right decision. Should i wait around and see if he wants to get back together? Or should i just forget about him?
Thanks.
Get a cup of coffee, heat it up in the microwave so that it's bubbling hot. Now, ask yourself, while you look at that hot cup of coffee...if you stick your finger in it will it burn? There ya go, you got your answer.
There is a lot of information out there on sociopaths / sociopathic behavior. Read up on it, then think about where you are. Basically if you want someone like that back, you have fallen for their game. The worse thing to happen would be for you to get this guy back.
And as a side note from a personal experience years ago. There is a book / system out there for guys called How to Keep Your Lover. It outlines how men can manipulate women to always come back to them no matter what they do / what they do wrong. You are falling for one of the easiest and oldest tricks in the book. He has done something wrong, he had now twisted it into being your fault so that now you are feeling the need to make up to him. Basically you are getting played.
